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How do you "make a move" on someone? (hexbear.net)
submitted 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) by Dimmer06@hexbear.net to c/askchapo@hexbear.net
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I think I stumbled upon a woman who is into me and I'm really into her but I haven't the slightest idea how to express that beyond kinda just saying it like a dumbass. We've hung out a few times and I'm going to reach out to go out with her again but I've got no idea how to express my actual feelings for her

I've never had a girlfriend. Only women I've been with have come onto me hard and I just halfheartedly played along. Last time I was really into a girl was years ago and I fucked it up because I didn't know how to express that. I really don't want to mess this one up though. How do I go about this?

Edit: thanks for the input everyone (silly answers too). Gonna ask her to go somewhere with me this weekend and be a little bit less coy

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[โ€“] HiImThomasPynchon@hexbear.net 1 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

You need at least an 8 in Volition and it helps to have a 6 in suggestion.

I'd suggest grinding a bit before going through with it, as it's a red check and it has an impact on the rest of the game.

[โ€“] HumanBehaviorByBjork@hexbear.net 1 points 2 years ago

say it like a dumbass. "hey, i'm into you, wanna go on a date? [coffee, drinks, whatever]" life is way too short to try to play poker with your heart in the pot.