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Fancy cupcakes are 70% icing, really not that nice and a waste of money

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[–] DrDystopia@lemy.lol 7 points 3 weeks ago

The really steep one that'll give me a heart attack.

[–] Taleya@aussie.zone 6 points 3 weeks ago

Yes but the icing is what i want.

[–] ocean@lemmy.selfhostcat.com 6 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

Calling Buddhism or Confucianism not a religion is a political claim which the speakers usually have zero knowledge of and I’m sick of it. The history of what is religion in China from the republic onwards with the very Protestant understanding of what is a world religion is very important to understand this question. But most people either claim this for their hippy means or to be derogatory

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[–] Lemminary@lemmy.world 6 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

Blessing someone for a sneeze is the most useless human interaction I know of and we should do away with it.

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[–] sexy_peach@feddit.org 5 points 3 weeks ago

The "phones are bad and suck your life away" crowd has gotten way too big. Yes, it's easy to waste time on them, but that's just something you gotta learn, like not watching TV series all night. You're a grown up, deal with it. Also maybe you feel bad for spending all that time on your phone just because feeling bad for that feels cool? It's actually your life you can spend it however you want. You don't need to be productive or successful to be a worthy human. Be a lazy shit that plays stupid phone games while on a train to work.

[–] BellyPurpledGerbil@sh.itjust.works 5 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (3 children)

Percentile dice (two ten-sided ones) are read with one die representing the 10s digit, the other the ones digit.

00 and 0 = 100

10 and 0 = 10

The shit people come up with as alternatives to reading the results are wrong

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[–] RizzoTheSmall@lemm.ee 5 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (2 children)

Being neuroatypical isn't a fashion accessory. Growing up in the 80s and 90s and not being "normal" was marginalising and hard for everyone around. You're not special or trendy because you self-diagnosed autism using an online questionnaire in 2023, you're just an unbearable twat and you want to not have to take accountability for your own shitty attitude.

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[–] RatzChatsubo@lemm.ee 4 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

It doesn't matter which side you put the toilet paper in. I'm poly-dextrous and it is the way

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[–] Ilixtze@lemm.ee 4 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

The contemporary disdain for postmodernism was a Psy op designed to completely destroy philosophy from the inside. And the supposed replacements for post modernism (metamodernism or whatever) were just pop culture millennial distractions that just took attention away from the philosophical issues of the inadequacies of language and crisis of our communications systems. We became stuck in limbo. Cultural conversation dumbed down by useless culture wars articulated in low attention span pop culture commentary and therapy speak.

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