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Gender experts of hexbear, please help me understand wallet gendering

It's just a frigging wallet monke-beepboop

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Here comes Dick, he's wearing a purse. Here comes Jane, with a wallet sporting a chain.

Now wallet meets boy, and wallet meets girl

They both look the same, they're overstuffed with pocket change.

And they love each other so

Androgynous 🎢

what if ur wallet was a brawwd

[–] daniyeg@hexbear.net 6 points 1 week ago

they expected a cock to pop out when they opened that wall instead they saw a gaping hole.

[–] Sulv@hexbear.net 5 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I’m glad those cross body bags became cool, it’s almost like I get to carry a purse sicko-wistful

I'm firmly on team backpack

[–] LaGG_3@hexbear.net 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] HexReplyBot@hexbear.net 1 points 1 week ago

I found a YouTube link in your comment. Here are links to the same video on alternative frontends that protect your privacy:

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I think people have already dissected this wallet's thing, but I was just thinking the other day I want to get a more feminine wallet. Definitely gendered.

[–] doublepepperoni@hexbear.net 7 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I searched for "women's wallet" on AliExpress and these were the top results. Now these I would agree do look feminine though I wouldn't mind that cool shade of red on the bottom row

Sidenote: the search immediately suggested "women sexy toy" when I typed in "women." Not sure if that would take me to dildos or anime figurines

[–] D61@hexbear.net 4 points 1 week ago (3 children)

"Smooth equals feminine" gender-policing

"Wrinkly equals masculine" gender-policing

Also, this does does look more like a small purse than a bill fold style wallet. saul-your-honor

[–] buh@hexbear.net 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

If that’s how it works my body is feminine but my face is masculine chomsky-yes-honey

[–] doublepepperoni@hexbear.net 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

But what about your brain πŸ€”

[–] buh@hexbear.net 6 points 1 week ago

Cutesy and demure blob-no-thoughts

[–] doublepepperoni@hexbear.net 4 points 1 week ago (3 children)

What are dudes supposed to do with change??? Clench it in their big meaty fists? Shove it up their ass? All the wallets I've ever owned have had a little coin pouch with a zipper

[–] MeowZedong@lemmygrad.ml 6 points 1 week ago

You collect it all in a giant pile that goes in your giant pocket like a big, manly dragon. This way your manly coin horde jingles as you walk, making the small pocketed people attracted to/jealous of you.

[–] queermunist@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 week ago

Throw it in the trash.

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[–] ClimateStalin@hexbear.net 4 points 1 week ago

I was thinking it looked like a front pocket wallet for a man, especially given the chain

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