Eh, I wouldn't turn myself down, but I'd certainly not go out of my way to hit on me. I'm not really my type.
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I don't like my body type at all. I thought I was unattractive to everyone until my girlfriend proved me wrong
There's always someone for everyone.
Fuck yea I'm hot.
On Fire!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥
That definitely is the case with me (say in around 70% of cases?).
I think in my mind, people that are my type = attractive. I want to be attractive. Therefore, my ideal look = the body type I am attracted to. Thankfully, I have almost achieved my ideal "look" or whatever.
So yeah, I do look like people I have sex with usually.
That is exactly my line of thinking.
yeah I would find someone like me decently attractive. but I still find myself repulsive when I look in the mirror lmao.
Nope, with same gender folk I find they usually have something striking or unusual in their appearance and I'm far too normal middle of the road looking to fit that.
My husband and I have been mistaken for brothers before so... Yeah
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politics, values, and kinks are way more important than appearance
Yeah, but i asked especially if you or anyone looked like someone they would like to have sex with.
So, do yo?
(This is just a chill and funny question, pal. Just play along if you will)
Appearance is never a sufficient factor on its own, but in my own case appearance, I wouldn't consider it a disqualifying factor. Though me a few years ago wouldn't have to try as hard, for sure...
Good to know, thanks for play along! And you're right, appearance is not everything. If someone is veey attractive and even my type, but is the biggest piece of shit ever, I'm just not interested at all.
Honestly, decent people are so rare, one cannot afford to be fussy about appearance. Fortunately, ethical compatibility is VERY attractive.
Hell yeah! Nothing's more sexy than stand for humans rights!
Needlessly speciesist but it's a good start
I'm an androgynous twink who is into bears. There is no overlap
I'm a bear into androgynous twinks. There is also no overlap
Thinking about it more, there is one area of overlap: the genitals 😆
No
I have a type. I'm not that type.
I think I kinda did ten or fifteen years ago, but I'm a bear/dad now and I'm much more into rugged women than rugged men. My taste in men runs twink-ish, usually.
My wife has aged similarly though, which very much works for me.
That's fair, My taste in men also leans more towards twinks, and currently I look kind of twink-y. But maybe if I keep gaining weight and muscle, while I don't think I'll end up looking "bad", maybe I'll stop being my type.
I would totally fuck me.
No, I like both men and women with dark hair/eyes/complexion and I look the complete opposite. I definitely have a type. Oddly, my brother, though straight, has the same preferences in women and he and I look alike.
Yes lol
not anymore, my wife made me get a haircut
on the plus side, I now look more like someone she would have sex with
Something tells me she knew what she was doing with making you get a haircut
she did, which is why I listened when she told me it was time
Yeah
I'm glad that as a straight, this doesn't apply to me, cause I have a twin brother and would've made for an awkward question.
Somehow i wonder what the odds are of a twin being straight while the other is gay. Or if the odds are higher for both twins to be gay?
I have a client who's SO's twin brother is not gay. I don't know what the odds are, of course, but this is proof that it can occur! I suppose it goes without saying they cannot be identical.
Yeah. I'm definitely my type
ABSOLUTELY YES.
In that case... go fuck yourself!
Respectfully
HELL YEAH!!
I'm super cute, generally a mess, and emotionally unavailable.
I'm definitely my type.
Pretty sure I dated you for a couple weeks last month.
I miss you <3
(Seriously you're better off without them!)
That's the attitude!
Not gay but I have sex with my arm regularly
Yeah but I'm thinking about someone else's arm.
No. I have a type and I'm not it.
Absolutely. I don't have a type, but definitely find myself attractive.
No. Perhaps similar features but I'd want someone a bit different.
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