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Like just by being a goofy lil gal that was assigned silly lil guy at birth, just on that fact alone, people want me fucking dead. And in public when I'm not in make up I get treated horribly and it's getting worse.

Like why chose to be mean?It takes more energy to be mean too! I just don't get it chat. doggirl-cry

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[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 39 points 4 weeks ago (2 children)

Actual answer:

Your existence challenges patriarchy. Without that, conservative worldviews crumble. To them, you're a sign of the literal downfall of society, so they want to snuff that out by any means necessary.

[–] kristina@hexbear.net 9 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

ACAB (assigned communist at birth)

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 8 points 4 weeks ago

I wish. I lived decades as a man and a lib.

The cringe keeps me up at night -_-

[–] Meltyheartlove@hexbear.net 23 points 4 weeks ago

cuddle I am so sorry there are too many Nazis out there. I don't understand what their problem is but I seriously hope things get better. Please take care of yourself.

[–] thepenismightier@lemm.ee 23 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

It's bullshit. At least all the mean people are living in their own little private hells of anger. If you can keep your joy, you win. We're all rooting for you, and hoping the mean people get a clue and chill out.

[–] Aliveelectricwire@hexbear.net 25 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago) (1 children)

I like that even you .ee folks agree with us on this.

I actually got a very large tattoo that says "I EXIST."

The evilest people on the planet can take my body, my life, my mind, everything. Everything except the fact that I existed. They can't undo that. I exist.

[–] Maeve@kbin.earth 6 points 4 weeks ago
[–] LaBellaLotta@hexbear.net 16 points 4 weeks ago

I’m really sorry you’re being treated this way it’s really shitty.

It’s cold comfort and it doesn’t help keep you safe but I do think it’s worth remembering these people are always projecting their own unresolved angst and gender insecurities. I’m sure you’ve heard this before but it’s unbelievable how true this.

[–] anarchoilluminati@hexbear.net 14 points 4 weeks ago

There's a lot of us that want you alive though, and we're much nicer too! stalin-heart

[–] FedPosterman5000@hexbear.net 12 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

A better world is out there, being built, but the old world is struggling to just die already. That’s what I tell myself at least. Idk. Been more vocal and aggressive in support so it gets through that it’s not acceptable to punch down- but the levels of bullshit people are on is wild - but I do think the number of assholes is going down. You’re supported unconditionally by lots of people, and growing, while the cruelty itself and the systems that perpetuate it lose support by the day. I’m sorry that the thrashing of the dying patriarchy is painful - we’re all smothering this fucker as best as we can and one day soon will dance on its grave together duck-dance chicken-bop

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 14 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] FedPosterman5000@hexbear.net 10 points 4 weeks ago

Optimistically was going to try and find data that refuted that but the AP-NORC poll was worse than the Pew one. This country is unsalvagable

[–] Maeve@kbin.earth 11 points 4 weeks ago

I'm really sorry and disgusted you are experiencing this. Weak people who can't control or worry they will lose control of themselves seek to bully and control everyone else. It's really that simple. Please know you are seen, loved and supported.

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 6 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago)

People just suck. Not every person, and not all the time, but far too many people are just horrible. They don't care about what's true, they don't care who gets hurt.

[–] Hestia@hexbear.net 5 points 4 weeks ago

Those were people are scum, unworthy or acknowledgement or respect. Don’t let the opinions of pathetic creatures like them get you down.

[–] Lussy@hexbear.net 2 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

Being cruel is just human nature to almost a majority of people

[–] Aliveelectricwire@hexbear.net 1 points 4 weeks ago

downbear

Dude come on, that's such a negative and reductive way of thinking. People are wonderful and we are worth saving as a species.

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