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I came back to China after being in the US for 10 years and just want to chat about stuff (lemmy.world)

submitted 1 month ago by zlatiah@lemmy.world to c/casualconversation@piefed.social

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Sooo... yeah! I don't really have IRL friends to chat about this so I figured I'd make this post. Didn't want this to be super consequential like hosting an AMA or anything since it's just me going back to where I was born but yeah

A few funny observations and maybe conversation starters:

Everything I read in the US seems to talk about how China is simultaneously a futuristic paradise and an authoritarian hellscape... both seem fairly overblown. There are a lot of public transit and the food is amazing though
The rumors are true, in China they really use Wechat for everything. Wechat is used for payment (almost no one uses credit cards or cash), booking tickets, ... and all of these are tied to your national ID and your face recognition. It's a bit terrifying
There are sooooo many ads everywhere! Heck my parents' apartment building has an ad billboard right in the elevator, and this is apparently the norm. On the app store the Microsoft Edge browser literally got a 5-star rating and was praised for not running ads... it's that bad.
My god the internet is atrocious compared to the US, and having to do half of the stuff I need to with a VPN doesn't really help. It's so bad that I was missing my Gentoo days of compiling packages from source...
I thought there would be a ton of anime stuff, especially since I had the impression that Mihoyo games (the company that developed Genshin Impact, Honkai series, etc) is a topic of national pride... I think I have made a mistake. I have met three cosplayers just walking on the street so far though, so the culture definitely is there
I like rhythm games and I'm delighted to find out there are maimai DX cabs everywhere, this thing is impossible to find in the US. Haven't found SDVX or IIDX cabs, or even CHUNITHM cabs though... Also China apparently has their own Pump It Up clone (not DDR, PIU) with four more outer arrows. Imagine the five PIU step keys and four more outside...
Lemmy.world is somehow not blocked by the Chinese internet firewall. Not that I feel safe browsing Lemmy with the type of posts I make... On that topic, my own little web domain isn't blocked lmao I can still use SearXNG as usual

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[–] thezeesystem@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I always was curious about a couple of things there. How are LGBT been there, can people be them selfs or are they like forced into hiding? Also I had heard things that people in China think Elon musk is a savior of China and see him as Ironman type of person, is that true?. Hard to know what is propaganda or not about it though.

[–] zlatiah@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

... sorry, you asked the wrong person for it, I'm as clueless about Chinese social media/young people culture as any regular American is, and my parents being in their 60s don't help.

If it is just my observation, I do think Chinese society seems... 1) a bit behind culturally compared to most of the Western world despite China's technological advancements, and 2) seem to be almost emulating Japan's contemporary culture (which is culturally very conservative)? If these two points hold true, I guess the logical answer is that LGBT is pretty bad. I will have to go to some bars/clubs and underground scene to check for myself though, I could be very wrong

No idea about Musk though. Although China does have several Chinese companies making a ton of domestically-produced electric vehicles so... I guess he was kind of a savior??

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