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My contribution: My health has improved greatly and I'm feeling better than I have in years. Also look at this stupid bird, how can you look at that unsettling face and not feel joy? He's so happy to be a freak. I love him.

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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 33 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

After almost 4 months sober, I had a socially acceptable amount of alcohol at a friendly gathering last week. I have not drank since and I am not going to drink for over a month to be sure

[–] Dort_Owl@hexbear.net 23 points 2 weeks ago

Fucking proud of you lets-fucking-go

[–] kristina@hexbear.net 20 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] Dort_Owl@hexbear.net 14 points 2 weeks ago
[–] T34_69@hexbear.net 19 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Went to the pool for the first time in like, years... I'm so sore right now lol, it's such a good workout. I should go more often.

[–] Dort_Owl@hexbear.net 19 points 2 weeks ago

Exercise sore is always good because it means you're going to be even stronger once your muscles recover.

[–] SorosFootSoldier@hexbear.net 16 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I quit vaping, full disclosure I switched over to nic pouches but at least I'm no longer killing my lungs and my brain inhaling toxic metals. So I kicked cigs and vapes, progress I suppose.

[–] Dort_Owl@hexbear.net 10 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Damn that must have taken a lot of willpower.

[–] SorosFootSoldier@hexbear.net 21 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Thanks. It's a popular misconception that recovery is all about willpower when it's really not, when you try and white knuckle it you generally end up relapsing. A healthier approach is recognizing your triggers and trying to remove them as much as possible from your life, I found that works best. I still have my main trigger to deal with though and that's my dad but in the interim I can try and reduce the harm as much as possible.

[–] Dort_Owl@hexbear.net 7 points 2 weeks ago

Oh totally. There's a ton of factors at play for sure.

My Brother Hassan just got the first in his city in the Tawjihi exams ,his field is agriculture

[–] happybadger@hexbear.net 15 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I planted three super high visibility pollinator gardens, got a fourth approved, and in exchange for one of them I got a tour of an antique trolley maintenance shop. They're all in spaces where children can learn from otherwise degraded ornamental beds.

[–] KuroXppi@hexbear.net 6 points 2 weeks ago

FrogPog extremely cool

[–] thelastaxolotl@hexbear.net 14 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Lost kiwi species found in wild after 47 years

Up until now, we believed kiwi pukupuku/little spotted kiwi had gone extinct from mainland New Zealand. Our smallest kiwi is particularly vulnerable to introduced predators, and the last known sighting of a kiwi pukupuku on the mainland was in 1978. In the years since, despite targeted searching, we haven’t found any others.

Then, back in April, I received an email from a hunter we contracted for tahr control in the Adams Wilderness Area on the West Coast. The email included a short, blurry video of a kiwi looking for its next meal in a bed of fallen Dracophyllum leaves.

[–] Dort_Owl@hexbear.net 7 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

This news just made my day. Love those birds.

[–] WhatDoYouMeanPodcast@hexbear.net 14 points 2 weeks ago

I have this coding project that's taken me hundreds of hours trying to recreate ERP from scratch as an open source resource. I didn't realize that giving it a choice between GUI and CLI was as ambitious as creating it in the first place. I was really anxious because I didn't know what to do in order to separate back end from front end and failed a few times, but this week I got it to work in an organized way.

It's going to have interchangable hosting, file storage, custom data parsing, custom file creation, page style, login+permission, etc. all ready to hopefully take a day or two to set up and make (the parsing, file generation, and persistent objects likely taking longer).

[–] T34_69@hexbear.net 14 points 2 weeks ago

Congrats on your health!

[–] Real_User@hexbear.net 13 points 2 weeks ago

My coworkers invited me to their knitting club feral-hog

[–] AntiOutsideAktion@hexbear.net 12 points 2 weeks ago

My work finally gave me a new pair of uniform pants after I've been asking off and on since goshdang november of last year.

I had to pull my manager aside and crotch-up at him so he could see the frayed inseam that had been giving me a rash for the previous couple of days.

The moment was soiled somewhat when I put them on and they were way tighter than I remember the last pair I got. I need to lose weight...

[–] IvarK@hexbear.net 11 points 2 weeks ago

I exhibited my passion project video game at a local con (~20k attendees) and got great feedback and got to see people have a fun time with my art c:

[–] danisth@hexbear.net 10 points 2 weeks ago

I hate my job so I applied to a two places that looked interesting. I'm going into my 3rd round at one place next week and a first round at the other one. I'm not sure if either of these will end up sticking, but sure is a confidence booster batting 2/2 in my first time looking for 7 years. No matter what I'll be leaving this place soon so that's good.

[–] corgiwithalaptop@hexbear.net 9 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Its my partners birthday today! We're watching Channel 0 before bed rn, and gonna get some cake tomorrow.

[–] Dort_Owl@hexbear.net 4 points 2 weeks ago

Sounds nice wholesome

[–] Ram_The_Manparts@hexbear.net 8 points 2 weeks ago

My health has improved greatly and I'm feeling better than I have in years.

Hell yeah, love it

[–] Aradino@hexbear.net 8 points 2 weeks ago

I bought a camera(Nikon D3500) and I've been really enjoying photography. I bought some small prints of my favourites so far.

[–] Bruja@hexbear.net 8 points 2 weeks ago

Befriended another still-masking queer vegan; ordered onion rings and the guy gave me extra on the house.

[–] TheSpectreOfGay@hexbear.net 7 points 2 weeks ago

got over my body image issues enough to start modifying some dresses to fit / buy clothes i like that would fit instead of being a "goal"

[–] tricerotops@hexbear.net 6 points 2 weeks ago

We may all die but if an intelligent species does evolve again on this earth hydrocarbons will be too difficult to get to bootstrap a second industrial revolution.

[–] KuroXppi@hexbear.net 6 points 2 weeks ago

I watched Kpop Demon Hunters and was surprised at how much I enjoyed it. As a long time fan of TWICE it was great seeing the end-credits shots of Jeongyeon, Jihyo and Chaeng in the studio

[–] godlessworm@hexbear.net 6 points 2 weeks ago

i watched all 5 of the original planet of the apes movies and it's one of my new favorite franchises.

[–] CharlieTheOctopus@hexbear.net 4 points 2 weeks ago

I’ve been getting closer to the girl I have been seeing, and we have been having a great time with it. :)

[–] ReadFanon@hexbear.net 4 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] dustbunnies@hexbear.net 3 points 2 weeks ago

Care-Comrade you are more special to me than words and emojis can say, and I wish you more peace, fulfillment, health, wealth, and happiness than you can reasonably deal with in a single lifetime ❤️

[–] m532@lemmygrad.ml 3 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I have a new computer and its super fast

[–] Dort_Owl@hexbear.net 2 points 2 weeks ago

Ooooh what kind? What are the specs?