TheSpectreOfGay

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[–] TheSpectreOfGay@hexbear.net 1 points 4 hours ago

Eh, I don't really care about things being spicy for spicy's sake, it's just a lotta good flavours are spicy and just aren't sold or dulled down a ton where I lived

Appreciate the tip tho I do in fact put chili oil on everything LOL

[–] TheSpectreOfGay@hexbear.net 9 points 11 hours ago (3 children)

i live in a super white area, and there's legit nothing spicy around kiryu-pain

[–] TheSpectreOfGay@hexbear.net 12 points 3 days ago

onions r delicious

[–] TheSpectreOfGay@hexbear.net 11 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

Yea

It's to make people think they have some amount of individualist control over ecological collapse. If you just recycle, then you are helping the environment! Do not look further into this.

[–] TheSpectreOfGay@hexbear.net 30 points 5 days ago

gross

especially the ones about taking a pay cut and not needing a raise

fuck you, pay me

[–] TheSpectreOfGay@hexbear.net 12 points 6 days ago (1 children)

my masc name is cool as shit actually

[–] TheSpectreOfGay@hexbear.net 17 points 6 days ago

Had a similar experience

CW AbuseI forget which subreddit it was, but I was talking about how I had finally made the decision to get out of an abusive relationship and break up with them. I was super anxious about it because I had been in the situation for over a year. Almost all the responses I got were saying I must have been the bad guy for being the one to break things off.

[–] TheSpectreOfGay@hexbear.net 24 points 1 week ago

oh ya for real

like right after i posted this i was trying to figure out what the double meaning behind something someone else said was for like 10 minutes straight

it's so exhausting, my relationships where we both know the other is saying what they mean are SO much easier

 

what im saying is what im saying, stop randomly jumping to conclusions, it's so confusing

if im asking you what you need me to do for you, i'm not trying to guilt you for needing things, im asking you what you need from me

god communication is so frustrating agony-wholesome

[–] TheSpectreOfGay@hexbear.net 26 points 1 week ago

i definitely see stuff i would define as horny posting fairly often

but the horniness level tends to be lower than it is in other places, which for me personally means it's fine bc it doesn't trigger my sex repulsion. but it's def there

[–] TheSpectreOfGay@hexbear.net 3 points 1 week ago

This is basically my plan when I'm not super anxious spiralling lol

I'm in therapy rn but it's gonna take a while cos i just got out of an abuse situation

[–] TheSpectreOfGay@hexbear.net 18 points 1 week ago

also i broke my perfect non-posting streak for this trans-sad

[–] TheSpectreOfGay@hexbear.net 14 points 1 week ago (1 children)
 

Hello chat

I upped my anxiety med dosage a bit ago and the anxiety has been so bad

Currently I am spiralling bc I've been unemployed for 3 years now and I haven't been looking for anything for the last few months bc it's made my mental health so bad i physically can't do it

I'm imagining it's going to be another few years until I'm stable enough to get back in there, and at that point I feel like I'm totally doomed due to having such a big gap and it'll be a never ending cycle

Idk if anyone feels like giving a pep talk I'd appreciate it lol

Also sry if this is the wrong comm the mental health ones mod only now so idk where to post

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