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For me it feels like breaking up with someone after many years. At the same time, I feel a bit dirty mentioning the name in the post title.

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[โ€“] lixus98@kbin.social 3 points 1 year ago

I felt sad at first. When I saw that disaster of AMA it motivated me to just leave and delete my account.
I was a lurker on Reddit but here I get to participate and you really feel heard.

[โ€“] heartlessevil@lemmy.one 3 points 1 year ago

A little but it's not like we didn't know this was coming. I mean, Lemmy was made because they recognized that centralized platforms all follow the same cycle.

It's complicated. joined in 2018 right before they introduced new reddit and even back then there was a stigma reddit was "getting bad". However, reddit has been the best place for me to discover new things and the niche communities and interests were really great. I use an extension (that will surely die alongside the 3rd party apps) to find reddit comments associated with any youtube video that made my browsing really great.

The thing that makes me most upset is how they pulled out the rug from so many people and then acted like it was the people on top of the rug's fault it was pulled.

[โ€“] mrmanager 3 points 1 year ago

I feel excited because I see the potential here. It's not just another app, it's another internet if it becomes very popular.

[โ€“] KiofKi@feddit.de 3 points 1 year ago

Yes, I do. Reddit was a great source for troubleshooting and interesting knowledge. But without the drama and the resulting digital diaspora I would have never found out about lemmy.

[โ€“] _Stalwart_@lemmy.fmhy.ml 3 points 1 year ago

Not sad, just disappointed. They could have the perfect app and they ruined it, all just for more money.

[โ€“] arefx@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago

If I didn't see this coming from a lightyear away maybe I would be, but it's been obvious since at least 2016 the direction reddit was going.

[โ€“] nikmis@lemmy.click 3 points 1 year ago

I haven't mourned the loss of social media since I left my myspace account. That was my first love

I feel like Iโ€™ve been evicted from a house I loved and Iโ€™m kinda struggling with this feeling

[โ€“] bionicjoey@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 year ago

I just keep thinking to myself, "it's the end of an era"

Reddit has been the only social network I've used for 12 years. I've watched it go through so much change over the years, but it always felt like even at its worst, it showed its users more respect and gave them more control over what content they saw than any other social network out there. I am cautiously optimistic about the future of Lemmy, but it makes me sad to watch RiF and Reddit phase out of my life.

[โ€“] Lumilias@pawb.social 3 points 1 year ago

Honestly yes, I had been using Reddit since at least 2010 and I was a strong forum user before that. Losing the community hurts, and fuck spez for forgetting his roots.

[โ€“] pyska@lemmygrad.ml 3 points 1 year ago

Life is full of cycles. Every beginning has an end. And we are currently in a new beginning.

Years ago I would be heartbroken. So many good communities lost. So many posts erased. But this is for the better, I think. This time, let's rebuild those same communities stronger, and better.

Open-source is the future, and I'm willing to invest my time on it.

[โ€“] kalipike@lemmy.one 3 points 1 year ago

I'm excited to be diving into the federated side of things, but yeah. I've been an avid user of Reddit as a discussion board since the old days. There are some great technical communities there. Love the platform, but am struggling to deal with it any longer.

[โ€“] ZenkorSoraz@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago

Yes Reddit was great before it betrayed its users with a level of discourse and creativity not seen anywhere on the internet

It only really sets in as I'm scrolling through the replies. I'm going to miss all the communities I was a part of, especially r/otomeisekai and r/withesvspatriarchy. And I'm also going to miss the ui. I didn't have any social media until relatively late in their development process, so I'm not used to the look here yet.

[โ€“] harbo@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago

Not really, just annoyed. I used reddit for just over 10 years, and I was getting sick of it for the last few years anyway. I am really excited about Lemmy, I really hope it catches on. I got on the fediverse with Mastodon at the end of last year and Iโ€™m just so excited about the potential of it.

[โ€“] RegalOne@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

Same as you OP. Lots of years and lots of memories. But it's for the best and I'm looking for something fresh.

[โ€“] milkytoast@beehaw.org 3 points 1 year ago

I'm mostly sad about losing the communites i loved, for which I have not yet found a comarable one on lemmy. r/cars and r/cartalk mostly

[โ€“] OttoVonNoob@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 year ago

I'm used to the layout of RIF and my niche subreddits NCD/Ukraine Conflict, NBA but I'm posting here and trying to add to the community. Hoping for a better mobile app one day though:X

[โ€“] SolNine@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago

I don't really care... Reddit is constantly spamming me with follow bots from Only Fans, and I have never posted in a NSFW sub.

I'm also hopeful the way this is structured we will see a bit better moderation of servers/subs.

[โ€“] JoeKrogan@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

No it's long since passed it's prime when it stood for something nows its just a cash grab.

As Ivan Drago says if he dies , he dies

[โ€“] higante@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

For me it's like moving to a small town. Instead of a whole scene into each if my weird interests it's just a few cool people. But thats just a function of population.

[โ€“] LittleKerr@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Yes. It feels like moving to a new town and having to meet new neighbours, make new friends, know the neighbourhood and all that

[โ€“] gronapa@lemmy.fmhy.ml 2 points 1 year ago

I came back to Apollo for a while on a new iPad. I am so sad to see it go - it's one of the top parts of iOS I actually miss. Certainly sad to not use it nor Boost anymore.

[โ€“] risottinopazzesco@feddit.it 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

New place new rules new spirit. Iโ€™m all in. Deleted Apollo, will overwrite my stuff on Reddit.

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I have used Deddit on and off for years now and whilst I miss the communities and the sheer mass of useful/amusing information, I am happy we can start a new on something like this.

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