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I'm sure anyone using this would be thrilled to get my hairy non-binary ass pulling up

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[–] xi_simping@hexbear.net 3 points 10 months ago (1 children)

there is only one gender and its corporate memphis

[–] emizeko@hexbear.net 1 points 10 months ago

:corporate-art:

[–] FourteenEyes@hexbear.net 2 points 10 months ago

Women+ is after you've completed Women and you start over with all your skill points

[–] WittyProfileName2@hexbear.net 2 points 10 months ago

Woman+ is basically how a lot of lib "allies" will view NBs, (if they acknowledge them at all). There's this undercurrent of "if not man then woman" thought that lends to this sort transfeminine by default approach by people who don't care to educate themselves otherwise.

[–] Wrongleverkrunk@lemm.ee 1 points 10 months ago

Easy just lost yourself as non b

[–] therealjcdenton@lemmy.zip 1 points 10 months ago

What the fuck?

[–] Sarcasmenul@hexbear.net 1 points 10 months ago

Yeah my brain just shuts off whenever i encounter this sort of cognitohazard tbh. Its like a safety protocol to preserve my sanity.

[–] WithoutFurtherBelay@hexbear.net 1 points 10 months ago

To be “fair”, they probably don’t want to spend the coding hours that would require differentiating from different non-binary people

[–] WoofWoof91@hexbear.net 1 points 10 months ago

love being seen as a spicy woman

[–] RION@hexbear.net 1 points 10 months ago

If they're not from the Nonbinarié region of France they're just sparkling women tbh

[–] Bloobish@hexbear.net 1 points 10 months ago

Truly there can be no horrifying outcomes from this by way of abuse from creeps filtering their victims...

[–] PKMKII@hexbear.net 1 points 10 months ago

Do they charge extra for this?

[–] Frogmanfromlake@hexbear.net 1 points 10 months ago (3 children)

I'm assuming this would ideally be used by women who want woman Lyft drivers because there always is a concern that comes with male drivers. It doesn't look like it filters out male users and that probably opens it up for easy exploitation by men.

[–] usernamesaredifficul@hexbear.net 1 points 10 months ago

I am sympathetic as I remember that case where a male taxi driver was picking up, assulting, and murdering young women

obviously this company is going to fuck up its implementation

[–] Dolores@hexbear.net 1 points 10 months ago (1 children)

yeah why would the app have the passengers' gender listed? drivers can (and do) make assumptions about the names but letting either party filter for it is just a harassment tool

[–] Frogmanfromlake@hexbear.net 1 points 10 months ago (1 children)

It's a pretty lazy way to address a real issue without fixing anything. Can't say I expected much more from a tech company.

[–] Dolores@hexbear.net 1 points 10 months ago (1 children)

well they can't address the issue, it's literally contradictory to the business model. you want a safe, regulated environment for rider & driver? its called a fucking taxi

[–] GarfieldOfficial@hexbear.net 1 points 10 months ago

Sounds like the Kirghiz Soviet Socialist Republic to me

[–] KobaCumTribute@hexbear.net 1 points 10 months ago

Fuck that was literally a side plot on the sad horse show, that they founded an alternative to Uber with only female drivers after one of the characters complains about being harassed by a male driver. Then men start using the app to creep on the drivers, they replace all the drivers with strippers, and they sell the company for a huge profit and a feeling of guilt at having completely and utterly failed at what they set out to do in the first place.

[–] ThereRisesARedStar@hexbear.net 1 points 10 months ago

Women and nonbinary people who can afford ubers pay for safety from men using the same feature that makes it easier for men to harass women and nonbinary people who have to drive uber.

I love these man-made horrors within my comprehension

[–] Erika3sis@hexbear.net 1 points 10 months ago

No, it says women and non-binary. Femby gang femby gang

[–] WhoaSlowDownMaurice@hexbear.net 1 points 10 months ago

Gee, I'm sure my 6 ft masc-presenting self is what they're looking for in a driver right

[–] KittyBobo@hexbear.net 1 points 10 months ago

What's the trade in value if I have the old model Women and I want to get the new Women+?

lol. just throwing up their hands at the actual problem