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submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by seeCseas@lemmy.world to c/youshouldknow@lemmy.world

Why YSK: It's cleaner, cheaper and more convenient than toilet paper

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[-] ThiccSemperTyrannis@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

I'm from the US. While I have travelled to locales where they are commonplace, I never actually tried one. When lockdown and the tp crisis started, however, I purchased one online. I now hate having to use any lavatory that doesn't have a bidet.

Q - Doesn't it feel weird? A - No. Some people are worried that it may feel sexual. It doesn't. It's just a localized shower on your ass, which is something you hopefully do regularly.

Q - Won't it just push detritus away from the epicenter and make a mess? A - It can, if the bidet has narrow spray. Mine does this. Just do a quick shimmy that makes the jet draw a decreasing radius spiral.

Q - Doesn't everything get wet? A - Some bidets have air dryers, but in the absence of, yes. Keep tp in the lav to address this. The quick wipe to address this still saves a ton of tp.

[-] seeCseas@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Some people are worried that it may feel sexual.

I... did not know this was a concern? lol

[-] Hogger86@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

I have to say I do LIKE the feeling of the jet hitting my sphincter. I mean it's not full hunnnrrrr but it is ...pleasent

[-] ThiccSemperTyrannis@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

I should clarify that I live in a remote area where a lot of people are homophobes. Anything directed towards one's ass is, as the kids would say, sus af to these folks.

[-] ratz30@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

The I don't wipe or wash my ass because that's gay crowd. What a special bunch.

[-] CmdrShepard@lemmy.one 1 points 1 year ago

The "let me be hyperfocused on sexualizing other men's anuses to show how straight and manly I am" crowd.

[-] ReaderTunesOctopus@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

These people have serious issues. So, cleaning your butt makes you gay? Is toothbrushing OK, though?

[-] cedarmesa@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 10 months ago)
[-] s_s@lemmy.one 2 points 1 year ago

Imagine you get your hands covered in sticky filth. Do you wash them at a sink or just wipe them off with some paper and call it good?

Why do any different for your ass?

[-] tamtt@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Because your ass does literally nothing else all day, but your hands touch things like food etc. I'd say it was more like getting shit on your leg. Do you wipe it off or just wait until you next have a shower?

That said I love the idea of bidets, I'm just terrified it'll get my underwear and clothes wet while being cold and unpleasant.

[-] crilen@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago

" I'm just terrified it'll get my underwear and clothes wet while being cold and unpleasant." I've never had this issue.

[-] Ataraxia@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Wash them with soap and water and scrub them then dry them with a towel.

[-] sxan@midwest.social 2 points 1 year ago

My favorite pro-bidet argument from chainsawsuit.com

[-] Account5600@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago

.....you dont wash your hands?

[-] sxan@midwest.social 0 points 1 year ago

.... you don't wash your butt?

Your point is also the point of the comic: saying that you've rubbed dry paper on your butthole and that makes it "clean" is analagous to getting poop on your hands and doing the same.

You wash your hands; you should also wash your butt: so get a bidet.

[-] pinkolik@random-hero.com 1 points 1 year ago

And also saves trees

[-] mkeee2015@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago

I wonder whether you meant "bidet shower" or "bidet" (meant as a stand-alone additional sanitary equipment for a toilet room).

Video tutorial

[-] MicroWave@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Scored myself a bidet during that TP shortage at the beginning of COVID lockdown and it’s been a game changer. Get one because your butt will especially thank you after a spicy Thai or Indian night. Spicy poo and mud butt? What are those?

I still use TP, but it’s now for drying off.

[-] cucumacu@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

I got a Tushy classic bidet a year ago. It is amazing! For anyone out there that uses more toilet paper than you think you should, gets a raw bum from wiping, or wants to get three times cleaner, a bidet is for you. I'm a dude, but also my wife loves it. Honestly, one of the best purchases per dollar I have ever made and one that reminds me daily.

If you got poop on your hands, what do you think will get you cleaner? Couple of wipes with toilet paper or rinsing in the sink with water.

[-] shufflerofrocks@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Please God, I beg you all to do this. I mean no disrespect to y'all at all.

I have been using a bidet/health faucet/Jet spray all my life. I was so shocked and disgusted when I found out people in the west used toilet paper 🤢🤢

I've used toilet paper a few times in emergencies and I've regretted it everytime. The difference between water and paper in cleaning your butt is so vast.

[-] ahriboy@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago

Alternatively, installing a faucet near the toilet and placing bucket and dipper (locally it's tabo) is great. Common in the Philippines, Malaysia and Indonesia (source: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tabo_(hygiene))

[-] Th4tGuyII@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago

I've thought of getting at least a portable Bidet for a while (I rent, so can't really install a proper bidet). How easy are they to install?

[-] hihusio@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago

it's an easy install and easy uninstall.

[-] BradleyUffner@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago

You should also know that if you do this, when you go on vacation you are going to have one seriously sore butthole until you get home again.

[-] Ataraxia@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

I mean at least in Europe when you use a bidet you use soap and then still dry a few times with tp. These contraptions are good to soften the ass crud but you'll still need to wipe it off with tp.

[-] Drudge@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago

ok.....I'm intrigued. I've actually been using my kid's baby wipes because really, anything is better than dry TP. Looking at some options on Costco, seems the cheapy is just a hand-held thing for $80, then the seat-integrated ones are around $300 and up. Is the seat integration worthwhile? What about water temp? Is it basically a cold-shot to the butthole? That'll wake me up, no doubt.

[-] shankrabbit@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago

I thought the cold shot to the hole was going to be horrible, but it's actually a little refreshing.

[-] Drudge@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Huh....OK more intrigued. I can't say I've had that experience. FOMO is building.

[-] crazyminner@sh.itjust.works 0 points 1 year ago

I keep seeing bidets recommended. Ive thought about getting one, but I'm not sure.

Are there any vagina owners here that can testify to them? I'm worried it will just spray poop up into my bits.

[-] czech@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago

My girlfriend loves the bidet. You will not spray poop up into your bits but I get your concern. We also have a dial, on ours, to change the angle to vagina-mode. Great for periods, allegedly, but it blasts me in the balls if I don't notice.

[-] cocolopez@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago

I'll never understand how people live without a bidet.

[-] Anonymous0573@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago

I like to use toilet paper to get the bulk of it, then use wet wipes after.

[-] cocolopez@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

How dare you! Jajajaja. I guess everyone can do it as pleased

[-] Anonymous0573@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago

Lol at least I made progress. I was taught to just use toilet paper when I was a kid. Now if I have to do that, I feel so dirty

[-] cocolopez@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

I feel quite the opposite. Hear me, if you stick your finger in penut butter and just clean it with paper, you can still taste it if you suck it. But of you wash it with water your truly clean. But didn't want to sound like I was criticizing. Cheers

[-] Leer10@sh.itjust.works 0 points 1 year ago

Does anyone know what options exist for those who rent? I just have a travel attachment but it's more annoying to fill it up every time.

[-] MicroWave@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)
[-] Nogami@lemmy.world -2 points 1 year ago

After going to Japan, I ordered a genuine Toto washlet (warm water, heated, drying, all sort of goodies) and gave it to my wife for Christmas.

It's her favourite Christmas gift ever, even after almost a decade. The only gift that still gets daily use :). We had a problem with it a few years back and sent to the North American service centre. Flat rate for a complete refurbish. Awesome!

[-] Alwaysfallingupyup@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago

hold up ! Do they all have drying on them?

[-] Nogami@lemmy.world -3 points 1 year ago

I think all of the Toto washlets do?

[-] LollerCorleone@kbin.social -3 points 1 year ago

As someone from outside the West, the idea of just wiping with a tissue paper, and not using a bidet or its equivalent grosses me out tbh.

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