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submitted 11 months ago by TeryVeneno@lemmy.ml to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

I used to downvote fairly often on Reddit as a sign to disagree or to push down really disgusting bigoted comments. And to be honest, it became a habit to just downvote without replying. However, now that I’m on lemmy and not Reddit I’ve been actively trying to not instantly downvote things and instead move on or take the time to reply. Has anyone else been trying to do this?

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[-] freamon@feddit.nl 145 points 11 months ago

For any weird, bigoted stuff, lots of downvotes and no replies is hopefully the message an OP needs to receive to get the hint that they should by plying their recruitment attempts elsewhere. Engaging them is probably the worst thing to do.

I've had to remember that there's automatic hiding though, and do that manually.

[-] TeryVeneno@lemmy.ml 36 points 11 months ago

Definitely agree with that, I very much so still downvote bigoted comments and posts though I think I’ve only encountered two comments like that so far. Lemmy mods and admins are doing a great job.

[-] hemmes@vlemmy.net 13 points 11 months ago

I switched instances just so I could be on one that had downvotes because I passionately believe downvotes give immediate power to of self moderation to the users. However, I'm very light on downvoting. I only downvotevote stuff like the OP was talking about or if something is technically incorrect and damaging to a thread. But again I'm very light on downvoting, as I was on Reddit before. I usually ignore something that I simply don't agree with or think is too silly, etc.

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[-] cheeseblintzes@lemmy.world 27 points 11 months ago

I was Reading a post earlier tonight where someone shared an anti Covid view point and dropped the whole big Pharma/government groupthink garbage.

Every comment was telling them they would not be accepted here with those views.

I checked a few hours later and the conspiracists comment was gone, but it did have the largest number of downvotes I’ve come across yet at 150ish.

An echo chamber we need not be, but conspiracy garbage we need not at all.

I just miss when conspiracies were fun and not essentially a threat to one’s livelihood.

[-] chunkystyles@sopuli.xyz 11 points 11 months ago

From everything I've seen, conspiracy theories were rarely harmless. They almost always were rooted in antisemitism.

[-] Thorny_Thicket@sopuli.xyz 88 points 11 months ago

I usually downvote not because I disagree but because I think the comment is low effort or written in bad faith.

[-] GONADS125@lemmy.world 75 points 11 months ago

I've never changed my voting habits. I downvote trolls, hate, spam, and irrelevant content. I never downvote out of disagreement, nor do I use the upvote as an agreement button. I will upvote people I disagree with/am debating with if I believe they are promoting relevant discussion. That is how voting is intended to be used.

[-] Pyr_Pressure@lemmy.ca 28 points 11 months ago

I don't downvote if I disagree but I can't help but upvotes in agreement. Positive reinforcement is my thing.

[-] MurrayL@lemmy.world 6 points 11 months ago

They should make it so that replying to a comment automatically disables your ability to downvote it.

Would simultaneously prevent people trading downvotes while they argue back and forth, and encourage people to simply ignore trolls and move on without replying.

[-] DoomAxe@lemmy.world 15 points 11 months ago

If a post contains incorrect information that could be dangerous, you should be able to reply to it and also downvote it so that the incorrect information becomes less visible. For example, if someone said you should pinch your nose and lean your head back when you get a nosebleed. You should be able to correct them and still downvote to make the incorrect information less visible.

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[-] empireOfLove@lemmy.one 56 points 11 months ago

Why do you think I joined the instance I did?

Downvoting is useful for pushing irrelevant/spam comments down but it is definitely overused.

[-] SigloPseudoMundo@lemmy.ml 20 points 11 months ago

Yup, I saw vote manipulation way too much on Reddit. 3-5 down votes on a dissenting opinion right after it's posted usually tanks even the most well reasoned comment. Accounts like Unidan fly under the radar for so long.

[-] mrmanager 11 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

It's not used for pushing irrelevant or spammy content. It's used to show you don't agree and push that content away from sight. At least be honest about that if you support using downvotes.

People act like they are making the thread better in some way by cleaning trash. But that's not what happens. You are just making sure opinions you don't agree with are at the bottom of the thread. Nothing noble about that. Feels good, sure.

[-] Serinus@lemmy.ml 12 points 11 months ago

You're phrasing it in a way that is actively harmful. It's like you're trying to make downvotes worse than they are.

They're absolutely useful, but not for just opinions you don't like.

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[-] empireOfLove@lemmy.one 9 points 11 months ago

At least be honest about that if you support using downvotes.

lemmy.one has downvotes disabled.

[-] mrmanager 8 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

I have them disabled also on my instance. Beehaw showed the way here and it makes sense to me to not use them. People just want to punish opinions they don't agree with. The button should be called Punish. :)

[-] makanimike@feddit.de 50 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)
[-] Draconic_NEO@lemmy.world 11 points 11 months ago

Yeah it wasn't made for disagreement, it was meant for a crowd control form of moderation. That's why they had the karma index and allow for subreddits to impose karma restrictions. (I guess there could be an argument about it being a form of social credit system if it were, which let's be honest it became that anyway, whether or not it was intended to be that way from the beginning)

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[-] BendyLemmy@lemmy.ml 39 points 11 months ago

up/down voting is simply a way to help comments you think are good, or agree with, become more/less dominant in the thread.

In some cases, comments are useful to explain why - but often that's just not the case.

[-] altima_neo@lemmy.zip 38 points 11 months ago

If youre really into that, you should have signed up at Beehaw. They have downvotes disabled.

Personally, Imma keep doing it. Not because Im petty. But if I really disagree with something, I feel like it helps me avoid replying with something stupid or hurtful.

[-] somedude@lemmy.ninja 16 points 11 months ago

Downvotes really shouldn’t be for comments or submissions that you disagree with, but for anything that does not add to the conversation. Reddit started off with this guideline too, but at some point votes turned into agree/disagree.

[-] mean_bean279@lemmy.world 17 points 11 months ago

People always said the same thing on Reddit too, but there’s a lot of stuff that “adds to a conversation” that needs to be downvoted. Just because something “adds to a conversation” doesn’t mean that the people shouldn’t express that it’s an awful comment or viewpoint by downvoting.

For instance, on a history article about Nazis someone could say “well some were bad, but not all were. Plus the good they did around the world was actually a lot better than people give them credit for like introducing a universal basic income or providing their citizens with jobs and healthcare for all.”

Like… it’s a viewpoint… but by not downvoting that viewpoint you’re basically allowing someone to say Nazis aren’t bad. Which to me is why the downvote button is there in the first place. Good, well thought out comments that add to a conversation should be upvoted, but awful comments should be downvoted too. People just need to be more well intentioned about when they’re downvoting a viewpoint they disagree with.

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[-] TeryVeneno@lemmy.ml 7 points 11 months ago

I actually did lol, that was supposed to be my main but since they defederated from lemmy.world I’ve been using this account more. I may switch back once they refederate but for now this is my main.

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[-] rikudou@lemmings.world 27 points 11 months ago

Nope. Downvotes are there to be used, so I use them.

[-] Keeslinp@programming.dev 24 points 11 months ago

I dislike using downvote as a disagree button. Makes me feel like I'm discouraging people from sharing an opinion that's different than mine. Even if they are wrong (in good faith) I think I'd rather they feel it is a safe place to be wrong and just own the mistake with an edit or a reply. I know it makes me feel bad (I know I should have thicker skin) when I'm downvoted for having an opinion so I don't want to make others feel that way.

[-] TugOfWarCrimes@sh.itjust.works 11 points 11 months ago

I agree about not using it just to disagree with an opinion, but I do think the ability to downvote is very important. It just needs to be clear that it's supposed to be used to reduce the impact of stuff this is either harmful or just distracts from the conversation.

If I'm in a thread talking about what the best flavor of milkshake is, I will absolutely upvote someone claiming that chocolate is the best even though they are "objectively" wrong. They are however engaging with the conversation. On the other hand, someone who comes in saying that they hate milkshakes and prefer lemonade, while they're not exactly wrong in having that opinion, it would be worthy of a downvote because they're in the wrong place for that comment.

And then there's the bots/people that if they lost the ability to ever talk again, the world would be a better place. Never feel sorry for downvoting them.

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[-] CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org 21 points 11 months ago

That's a great step if it's something worth replying to. Not everything is.

[-] AsepticFuturisticFox@beehaw.org 15 points 11 months ago

I think downvotes should be removed completely. They are useless, if a content is harmful or off topic you can just report it. With massive numbers of bots coming to Lemmy I think downvote brigades will be even more frequent. Why do we need to give a score to everything? Let's just enjoy good content and try to answer to bad one

[-] Xer0@lemmy.ml 7 points 11 months ago

Completely agree. Always thought voting was stupid in general.

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[-] meteorswarm@beehaw.org 7 points 11 months ago

Come to beehaw, we don't have downvotes.

[-] Yuki@kutsuya.dev 14 points 11 months ago

I don't understand this mentality to begin with? Downvoting without context is like cursing at a random person in public and then drive away.

[-] bl4ckblooc@lemmy.world 29 points 11 months ago

That’s not really a great comparison. Downvoting is a way to say you disagree with someone without getting into an argument. And if I think of my personal experience, most of the posts/comments I would downvote on Reddit are about things that there is no point getting into an argument about.

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[-] MarcellusDrum@lemmy.ml 14 points 11 months ago

HackerNews has an interesting approach: You can't downvote comments unless you reach a certain amount of "Karma", and you can't downvote posts at all, you can "flag" them, meaning you think they don't belong here. Flagging doesn't affect the vote count, but massive flagging does make the post appear lower in the feed, and alerts mods.

This, alongside the tight moderation and zero-tolerance towards flame wars in the comments makes HackerNews one of the best places on the internet imho.

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[-] vortexal@sopuli.xyz 12 points 11 months ago

Not really, I've only ever down voted something that I thought really needed to be down voted. There is a reason why the down vote buttons exist but they should really only be used when you have a good reason to use them.

It's funny though, because I have the exact opposite problem, as I up vote pretty much every post I see. While that is better, I understand that it's probably also bad in it's own way.

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[-] daniskarma@lemmy.world 12 points 11 months ago

I don't think I have downvoted anyone in Lemmy yet.

But post and comment quality is much higher than Reddit.

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[-] laylawashere44@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 11 months ago

Honestly, for a while on Reddit, downvote was the only action other than posting comments that I engaged with on Reddit, mostly because I never felt strongly enough to upvote or block or save. And then I went in and seriously prunes Subreddits and basically cut all the Subreddits that I would ever downvote in and the ones that were negativity based like all the Subreddits dedicated to showcasing trashy, racist or otherwise shitty people. Also, any subs generally based in being down on something, even if it was something that everyone should be down on. Also nixed subs like latestagecapitalism because while I broadly agreed with the sentiment, they very vitriolic about everything. Reddit really improved for me since then. Highly recommended, I then spent a lot more time upvoting and commenting. Obviously don't have that problem on Lemmy.

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[-] Mothra@mander.xyz 11 points 11 months ago

No, my up/down vote policy remains the same. I only downvote when I find the comment aggressive, rude or inappropriate. Occasionally I downvote something that is incorrect, but if the reason is that then I don't downvote to negative values. I don't think giving an incorrect answer deserves a negative ratio.

[-] zombie_kong@lemmy.world 10 points 11 months ago

No downvotes. I use BAMO.

Block and move on.

I’m here for memes and boobs, ain’t nobody got time for dickheads.

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[-] ScreaminOctopus@sh.itjust.works 9 points 11 months ago

As time goes on I've been using the down vote more freely. Generally for anything I find low quality. I used to be more restrained with it but now I see it more as another tool that I have to shape the kind of content that gets promoted in the communities I interact with. It's the only option beyond withholding an upvote to keep low effort posts, trolling, and bigotry out of your communities other than reporting, which shouldn't do anything unless a post breaks the rules.

[-] God_Is_Love@reddthat.com 8 points 11 months ago

I intentionally joined an instance that doesn't allow it. I do it kind of compulsively on other sites but really don't feel good about it. Plus I always found it hurtful when people did it to me just because I didn't know something or had a polite disagreement. Downvoting reminds me of the 6 Million Merits episode of Black Mirror (if that's what it's called). Now when I try to downvote Lemmy says nope can't do that and I feel happy and relieved!

[-] WhoRoger@lemmy.world 8 points 11 months ago

I've never much voted at all on Reddit, but here I upvote most things.

[-] Dr_Toofing@programming.dev 8 points 11 months ago

I personally found the 5th reply to the same comment thread a little repetitive. Unless there is anything more to add to the conversation a simple upvote/downvote on an already existing thread is probably enough. I don't think I ever downvoted a post though, just because I sorted by top/hot.

[-] LowQualityGoods@lemmy.world 7 points 11 months ago

The habit I'm trying to break is writing out a response and then not posting it.

[-] boredtortoise@lemm.ee 7 points 11 months ago

Downvotes are needed for some content but on the other hand they're public and can cause targeting

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