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Tiba al-Ali's death has sparked the call for change for violence against women in Iraq.

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[-] MuhammadJesusGaySex@lemmy.world 86 points 10 months ago

This is why religion should be stamped out world wide. Faith always overrides common sense. Any rational human will tell you that killing your own daughter is abhorrent behavior.

[-] positiveWHAT@lemmy.world 29 points 10 months ago

That too, but this is more on honor culture.

[-] Powerbomb@lemmy.ml 14 points 10 months ago

Mostly this, even if it's also a thing where religion and culture have intertwined long and deep enough that people unfortunately wouldn't know where one starts and one ends.

[-] MuhammadJesusGaySex@lemmy.world 2 points 10 months ago

So, let me get this straight. Muslims don’t honor kill because religion? They honor kill because they have a cultural predisposition to honor killing? I mean honestly that sounds kinda gross.

Before you say they aren’t the only ones or something. I had to answer someone else before you. So, they got all the links showing that worldwide Muslims do the heavy lifting on honor killings, and we’re talking Muslims from the Balkans, to the Middle East, to Muslims in America, and Muslims in Europe. We are talking Muslims of every color.

I would think that Muslims in very different geographical areas would have slightly different cultures, but same religion.

[-] positiveWHAT@lemmy.world 6 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

I think it is partially entwined as a cultural element, like priests and pedophilia, but I don't think it is written in any Islamic text that one should kill family members out of dishonor – except maybe apostasy.

[-] MuhammadJesusGaySex@lemmy.world 2 points 10 months ago

I agree. From what I’ve read the Quran actually says it’s pretty bad to kill another Muslim. I’m assuming of course that most of these people have quit the faith. But too many Muslim communities in too many different parts of the world do honor killings, for honor killings to not have spread with Islam.

Which this has been such a popular topic that I started talking about it with a friend offline. His take on it was that “I feel that Islam IS the culture in these communities”. He went on to say that “when you have a religion that reminds you several times a day through prayer that you are this religion. You have to plan your day accordingly. So, the religion becomes the culture. “

Which I mostly agree with.

[-] j4k3@lemmy.world 8 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

There is no way to fix stupid. All of the elements needed to go underground are included in the instruction manual for all religions. It only creates further conflicts in future generations. The only way to fix this is to introduce scientific thought and principals at a young age across generations and slowly whittle away at them. If you present a solid target, you'll never succeed. People must realize on their own that they do not believe in magic and that this applies across all of time in both directions without exception. They need to see things like the cosmological constants are the true signature of the universe. If a god made this place at a minimum she should have written these down to undeniably sign her work. People need to realise, the past had extremely uneducated people, but they still had clever conartists, they still had all the mental health disorders we see now and then far more because of those that get treatment now. When something says X-Y-Z happened and thousands of people saw it, do we have thousands of accounts or one person saying so. Did they write it down right after it happened or decades later. Do their accounts have errors like a school kid cheating on their homework and copying others or are they consistent. Saying "X-Y-Z happened, and ten thousand people saw it" four decades after it happened and after a giant rebellion where most of those people died is nonsense. Some prophet zooming around like they have Dr Who's Tardis is just as fiction. People were stupid back then. They are not much better now. We were all very stupid as children. It is hard to reverse the stupid things we learned as children. The only way to fix this is to get to these children subtly without alerting the stupid children that are raising them.

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[-] tallwookie@lemm.ee 5 points 10 months ago

and how would you go about stamping out religion?

[-] Zetta@mander.xyz 9 points 10 months ago

Real education for kids on the world and what we know about how the universe works and why, the questions in science we are still working on, and teaching the scientific skills we are using to solve these problems.

So better education.

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[-] MuhammadJesusGaySex@lemmy.world 2 points 10 months ago

I think shedding more light on the atrocities committed by these organizations and individuals would be a good start. I think we should publicly shame these people when they do horrific things. Maybe even protest outside their place of worship.

I think that would be a good start

[-] SulaymanF@lemmy.world 4 points 10 months ago

This is NOT religion. This is stupid culture. There’s a reason every religious leader in Iraq condemned this. This stupid cultural idea existed for thousands of years, long before religion, and religious leaders are the ones actually citing holy books to help put a stop to this. Blame the right people.

[-] MuhammadJesusGaySex@lemmy.world 6 points 10 months ago

Look, there are Christians that believe in polygamy and child marriage as part of their faith. Does that mean all Christians? No.

Likewise, do I think that all Muslims support this behavior? No. But the numbers don’t lie. It is an almost uniquely Muslim phenomenon. It doesn’t matter where the Muslims come from.

[-] damndotcommie@lemmy.basedcount.com 18 points 10 months ago

But the numbers don’t lie. It is an almost uniquely Muslim phenomenon.

What?? You think muslim people have the lock on killing their own children. I think I just saw a news story weeks ago about a woman in the u.s. that killed her children. I mean americans usually tend towards just killing a bunch of other people's kids, but whatever. Keep thinking religion is the bad guy here.

[-] MuhammadJesusGaySex@lemmy.world 2 points 10 months ago

We weren’t talking about just killing children. We were talking about honor killings. Please stay on point here.

[-] damndotcommie@lemmy.basedcount.com 6 points 10 months ago

And you have no way of indicating whether or not someone who had killed a child has deemed it in their mind as an honor killing. The point is, you have a lot to learn. Thinking this can just be solved by eliminating religion, well that's a tall order. Preach on though, and show those wacky muslims how they should act.

[-] MuhammadJesusGaySex@lemmy.world 1 points 10 months ago
[-] damndotcommie@lemmy.basedcount.com 2 points 10 months ago

And from your link "Honour killings are believed to have originated from tribal customs." But go ahead with your muslim diatribe.

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[-] pulaskiwasright@lemmy.ml 9 points 10 months ago

But the numbers don’t lie. It is an almost uniquely Muslim phenomenon. It doesn’t matter where the Muslims come from.

I would like to see these numbers that show that it doesn’t matter where the Muslims come from.

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[-] SulaymanF@lemmy.world 3 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

No, it’s a middle eastern practice that exited for thousands of years before islam. Even though islam forbids it the cultural practice remains. You seem to be drawing a lazy false conclusion. Mafias pre-date Catholicism but just because the Italian mafia exists in a Catholic-majority area doesn’t make it a catholic practice.

[-] MuhammadJesusGaySex@lemmy.world 0 points 10 months ago

But the practice spread with Islam. That’s the difference. Mafia didn’t spread with Catholicism, but honor killings DID spread with Islam.

[-] SulaymanF@lemmy.world 0 points 10 months ago

No it didn’t. None of the Islamic missionaries included that with any of their teachings, which is why you don’t see Arab-style honor killings in places like Albania or Indonesia.

You keep insisting on something factually incorrect. It’s like claiming Catholicism invented wife beating and taught it to Latin America. It was never once sanctioned by Islamic scholars or leaders throughout 1400 year history.

[-] Nomad@infosec.pub 3 points 10 months ago
[-] cyclohexane@lemmy.ml 1 points 10 months ago

This isn't about religion. Please read the article before making ignorant comments.

[-] MuhammadJesusGaySex@lemmy.world 11 points 10 months ago

Bro honor killings in a Muslim country are closely tied to their religion. I have a very interesting relationship with Islam, and I can tell you with about 90% certainty that this is because of religion.

https://healthresearchfunding.org/18-incredible-honor-killings-america-statistics/

90% of all honor killings in the us have been Muslim.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Honor_killings_by_region

Here is honor killings by region. Guess who does the VAST majority of them world wide.

Technically an honor killing doesn’t have to be religious, but then you have to say that Muslims have a cultural predisposition to honor killings, and honestly that sounds super fucking gross.

But going back to what I was saying earlier. I grew up about as close to the Muslim faith as you can and not be Muslim at all.

[-] downpunxx@kbin.social 30 points 10 months ago

it's the religion of peace, you see

[-] rikudou@lemmings.world 23 points 10 months ago

Like all of them, really. I dream of a day when all people realize neither of those bullshitty made up stories even make sense and will stop believing in all of religion.

[-] MJBrune@beehaw.org 2 points 10 months ago

People like religion because it brings community. It allows people to create a shared knowledge which people have a way to connect and understand how people want to be treated. You honestly could do this with anything. You largely see it in the Linux community now though. Linux is religious like that.

[-] MJBrune@beehaw.org 6 points 10 months ago

Just like any religion. This has nothing to do with Islam. It has everything to do with extremist zealots who exist in every religion. Even Linux.

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[-] treadful@lemmy.zip 27 points 10 months ago
[-] roguetrick@kbin.social 21 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

And considered not premeditated and only a 6 month sentence. I don't know what sort of premeditation theory they have in Iraq but you cannot act in the heat of the moment without any thought when someone is asleep. In the states that is premeditated murder without any doubt.

Edit: To give an idea how low the bar is in the states, I was on a jury that convicted a man of premeditated murder who strangled a woman. At first I was going to vote against it, but after reviewing the ligature I noticed the killer tied it off. That implied a level of thought that pushed into premeditation, because he took the time to realize she might not die if he released the pressure and he wanted to ensure she did.

[-] cyclohexane@lemmy.ml 5 points 10 months ago

The father most likely has connections somewhere with the police or up the chain, and was able to get a story crafted. Hopefully after the uproar they will increase the sentence and punish those who collaborated.

[-] roguetrick@kbin.social 1 points 10 months ago

I'm sure even Iraq doesn't allow double jeopardy.

[-] cyclohexane@lemmy.ml 2 points 10 months ago

With enough uproar, the government will do whatever to silence it. It wouldn't be the first time a middle Eastern government responds to protests like that.

[-] autotldr@lemmings.world 14 points 10 months ago

This is the best summary I could come up with:


Tiba's death sparked protests across Iraq about its laws regarding so-called "honour killings", the case highlighting how women are treated in a country where conservative attitudes remain dominant.

When asked about the response of authorities to the killing, Gen Maan said: "Security forces dealt with the case with the highest standards of professionalism and applied the law.

For instance, in Article 41 of Iraq's penal code the "punishment of a wife by her husband" and "the disciplining by parents... of children under their authority within certain limits" are considered legal rights.

Article 409 meanwhile states: "Any person who surprises his wife in the act of adultery or finds his girlfriend in bed with her lover and kills them immediately or one of them, or assaults one of them so that he or she dies or is left permanently disabled, is punishable by a period of detention not exceeding three years."

Female rights activist, Dr Leyla Hussein told the BBC: "These killings are often rooted in misogyny and a desire to control women's bodies and behaviour.

Ala Talabani, head of the Patriotic Union of Kurdistan's bloc in the Iraqi parliament, said: "Women in our societies are hostage to backward customs due to the absence of legal deterrents and government measures, which currently are not commensurate with the size of domestic violence crimes."


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[-] bionicjoey@lemmy.ca 13 points 10 months ago

Why are so many of the comments blaming the concept of religion, or the specific religion of Islam.... Rather than blaming the dad for being a murderer?

This dude murdered his daughter. He doesn't get to hide behind an excuse. He doesn't get to say "religion/culture/whatever made me do it"

[-] GyozaPower@discuss.tchncs.de 60 points 10 months ago

Because religion is still the brainwashing machine that set it in motion.

Saying that it's all because religion and not blaming the father is stupid, but so is ignoring the importance of religion as a control tool.

[-] PP_BOY_@lemmy.world 24 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

Because fundamental Islam pretty much encourages violence against women?? Why are you not asking why violence against women is much more prevalent in Middle Eastern countries than almost anywhere else on Earth?

Despite how you've framed your comment, "blaming the dad for being a murderer" is the most surface-level analysis of this situation. We need to ask ourselves why did he kill her (as in, what environment needed to exist to make a father think that murder was a solution to whatever problem there was).

[-] terminhell@lemmy.world 1 points 10 months ago

Murder is like half of the first page

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