AuroraGlamour

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[–] AuroraGlamour@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Thank you so much. I'm ignoring her now

[–] AuroraGlamour@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Thanks so much, she doesn't insult me but she has said "others are so abusive for not saying I'll be loved by the world"

[–] AuroraGlamour@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (6 children)

Should I cut her off? It's all she talks about and if I tell her it's unrealistic, she'll call me abusive. She'll hate herself even more if I cut her off even though I kind of want to.

 

My friend who I post about, the problem is that she wants to be this great person who everyone worships and wants to be a symbol of the world and her country, etc. She always talks about it and when I tell her that I'm a normal person who's never achieved that either, she goes on about how her friends are all famous and she's not and how she wants to be worshipped but doesn't think she can achieve it and doesn't do anything to achieve it.

She constantly wants reassurance that she'll be worshipped by everyone and very beautiful.

[–] AuroraGlamour@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Thank you so much, I completely agree. I've had to talk to her less due to the fact that she would say the same things again and I don't know how to help. She has ADHD, depression, and BPD, FYI.

[–] AuroraGlamour@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Thanks so much, I've tried that and she just complains about how she wants to be incredible but can't

 

So my (24F) friend Jaiden (24F) has come from, according to her, an abusive family in Asia. We are online friends but don't know each other in real life. She wants to be the greatest person alive and constantly talks about how she wants to be this very great, multitalented person who's an actress, model, fantastic artist, etc. and how she wants to be famous but then talks about how she's horrible and will never be this all the time and IDK how to help anymore. I listen but she always asks me if I think she can be this person.

[–] AuroraGlamour@lemmy.ml 8 points 1 week ago

So he's neglectful, I guess. I'm sorry

[–] AuroraGlamour@lemmy.ml 12 points 1 week ago (2 children)

This relationship sounds toxic. I'd break up if I were you. He hurts you? Is he abusive then??

[–] AuroraGlamour@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

if it's who I think it is, they themselves said so

[–] AuroraGlamour@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 weeks ago

They may have been 16-17 then. Her?? or no?

[–] AuroraGlamour@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (2 children)

Was it that one 14 yr old girl?? She was permabanned everywhere.

 

I think this was asked by someone already, but I do wonder. I think it would be cool if my sister joined the Fediverse (but blocked NSFW content). She is a high school freshman, but I can’t have her join an instance where you must be an adult.

I do have friends on other social medias that are 13+ with their teen siblings making an account to follow them, but what are the rules here??

 

[–] AuroraGlamour@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 weeks ago

Thank you so much!!! :)

[–] AuroraGlamour@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 weeks ago

Thank you!! Her boyfriend says he doesn’t believe in sex before marriage, IDK…

 

(I don’t mean to make a whole saga of my life, I just wanted to talk about this.)

My (24F) sister Lena (14F), for anyone who hasn’t seen my previous posts, has a boyfriend named Dominic (16M).

Dominic has dealt with his ex James (16FtM). Dominic keeps calling James by his deadname because he doesn’t like James. He eventually blocked James and rarely mentions him.

“I will properly name and gender people who don’t abuse me”.

I wouldn’t say Dominic has zero empathy, but it’s definitely not a strong suit of his. Dominic, I hate to say this, kind of reacts to gender the way a 65-year-old dad with little experience on transgender would react if his kid was trans or something.

Dominic tries to understand, in other words, but doesn’t. I want to educate him, but I feel rude doing so, even though I will correct him sometimes. He will say stuff like “Sara is a trans girl, so she is actually a boy but now she is a girl.” I can tell that he tries to understand, just not with people he hates like James. But he does try to understand with most people like “Sara” in the example.

He has a good heart. He’s really a good kid, he just fails to empathize or understand sometimes.

 

In my fictional country, my character banned Kiwi Farms, but someone said that it would mean she hated free speech.

She doesn’t want harassment to occur in her country: for her citizens to harass others or become victims/“lolcows”.

I know it’s my world, but I need some advice.

 

publicado de forma cruzada desde: https://lemmy.ml/post/31497191

It’s for my worldbuilding, !Beckyland@lemmy.ml

 

It’s for my worldbuilding, !Beckyland@lemmy.ml

 

Queen Becca, on June 10, 2025, bans the following sites:

  • 8kun, for white supremacism, neo-Nazism, alt-right, racism, antisemitism, hate crimes, and mass shootings

  • Truth Social & X for toxicity and overly right-wing content.

 

I’m asking here because I may get judged less. I’m not asking as a hateful person. In my story, my worldbuilding, there is a fictional Queen who is banning sites like Kiwi Farms.

 

[This post is for my fictional country of Beckyland.]

Yesterday, on June 9, 2025, Queen Becca has announced the end of Kiwi Farms in her country. The Queen has declared it a hateful site and does not want it to “set foot” anywhere in the country. She does not want her fellow citizens to use the site nor does she want them having any sort of access or even becoming “lolcows”.

 

My sister Lena’s boyfriend Dominic has French parents who he says don’t speak any English at all. Dominic could just translate for them, but if our parents our meeting his, is there a more convenient way or will he just have to translate all the time?

Like, what if his parents just want to communicate with ours without Dominic or Lena? Do they just use the voice to translated text?

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