It could mean that you're a guy, but it could also mean you are a trans woman with lesbian attraction. There are trans women who still have and use their penis in sexual intercourse.
If you feel like you want to be a girl and have an urge to do girly things, it's more likely to be the latter though.
No, there is a big difference between trying to help someone discover themselves and denying a person's gender identity. To argue that they are the same is Transphobic TERF garbage meant to spread the idea that being trans is wrong or abnormal.
You are right to acknowledge that this will never be productive. Arguing with TERFs rarely is.
I'm not forcing anyone to be trans. I'm encouraging them to see their signs for what they are. The whole forcing people to be trans is TERF bullshit based on the idea that we're transing the kids.
Have you ever considered being a lady in real life?
Being trans isn't a choice and our society already stigmatizes being trans so people deny it or won't accept it and make up dumb excuses to not accept the fact they are a trans girl. But people need to come out because being closeted isn't healthy, and the sooner the better. Why are you so against trans people coming out and accepting themselves as trans?
Lots of people make excuses, but if they really sat down and thought about it without any internalized transphobia they'd realize it's actually because they want to be a girl more than anything else.
I like girls so much I became one in real life ๐ณ๏ธโโง๏ธ
Don't worry sister, it gets easier eventually ๐ซ ๐ณ๏ธโโง๏ธ