isame

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[–] isame@hexbear.net 10 points 1 week ago

I'm proud of you! I think I am very socially awkward but after I ended my last toxic relationship people have been coming out of the woodwork and people actually like me! It has gotten to be a bit much to be honest.

Best of luck, comrade.

 

This may be the wrong comm. Sorry if it is.

I recently misplaced my pride lanyard, along with my keys. The keys have been replaced. I'd like to buy something pansexual-themed, as that is how I identify. Does anyone have any good sources for such things? I found a seller on Etsy that sold chainmaille pieces (I used to make them), but my order was cancelled. I assume the shop is defunct. A lanyard isn't necessary, but something subtle that I can wear at a major grocery chain would be good. We're allowed a little personal expression.

Shipping in the US is a requirement.

[–] isame@hexbear.net 1 points 1 month ago

Thank you all for your suggestions! If I remember, I'll let you know what we pick.

[–] isame@hexbear.net 2 points 1 month ago

I suppose I mean anything 80s and older.

 

I've got a friend coming over in a couple days and we decided we were in the mood to watch some old fashioned sci-fi. Or, something newer would work as well. I'd like to find something with a leftist bent, but I'm unsure where to start, or what's out there. I've never been a big movie buff.

Suggestions?

[–] isame@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago

It seems a lot of people I know are going through it right now. I have no way of knowing what you go through, as my situation is vastly different. I'm in no position to help and don't know where you are exactly (nor do I need to) but I'm in central Florida. Feel free to reach out if you ever want to talk.

[–] isame@hexbear.net 6 points 1 month ago

Haven't read the comments, but the biggest problem I had was inability to orgasm, with both an SSRI and an SNRI. I could do it sometimes myself if I was alone, but the fact that I couldn't at all during sex was hurting my relationship at the time. Other than that, they did the job. I may be about to have to go back on something as my mental health has been concerning of late as well.

 

I get paid tomorrow night, but for now the fridge is empty and I need some food. Can someone spot me 15? Thank you, comrades.

$sgriffith0891 sgriffith0891 at geemail.com

 

Just need a little help between checks. I could use some not-ramen, and I need some hair ties.

Thank you all! It's raise season so with any luck I'll have to post here less!

CashApp: $sgriffith0891 PayPal: sgriffith0891 at geemail dot com

 

I just wanted to make a post saying thank you to everyone. Life has been really hand-to-mouth for me for the last year, since I lost my last job and found Hexbear.

The help this community has provided me has been literally life changing. Nearly without fail if I have a need, it gets met, and I've needed a lot.

I just wanted to give my sincerest thanks to everyone here. This community is incredible and I can't wait to give back.

Be well my friends!

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Rent Help (hexbear.net)
submitted 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) by isame@hexbear.net to c/mutual_aid@hexbear.net
 

Edit: Need met. Thank you so much comrade!

I miscalculated or fucked up somewhere and I'm about $50 short of rent, due by close of business July 3rd. If anyone could help out I'd appreciate it. If I have to pay it late next check the late fees would be about $100 and I'd be a week behind.

Thank you all!

Edit: DM or see past posts for PayPal, please.

[–] isame@hexbear.net 1 points 3 months ago

I'm currently looking for a second job so this sounds great.

[–] isame@hexbear.net 21 points 4 months ago (1 children)

I was losing my mind trying to figure that out. Thank you! I've been at work all day, so there was no way I read it in the past four hours.

[–] isame@hexbear.net 15 points 4 months ago

No shit! Between food and rent I can barely make it.

[–] isame@hexbear.net 8 points 5 months ago

Surely they signed an extremist non-compete.

[–] isame@hexbear.net 3 points 5 months ago (3 children)

That would make you a cop, comrade.

[–] isame@hexbear.net 8 points 5 months ago (1 children)

"Confusion, nausea, and vomiting are symptoms. Severe cases can cause seizures, coma, and death."

It waters down the blood, diluting electrolytes. It's a LOT of water. But it's something that is definitely possible.

[–] isame@hexbear.net 8 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (5 children)

To explain, the person testing you will check for temperature and appearance. If it's too clear they may require another sample.

I went through a state-run program called drug court (you can have a little doxxing, as a treat. Afaik not many states have this program) and if you pissed too clear they'd make you give another sample. They didn't observe us directly, so maybe that's why. Someone just stood outside the bathroom and listened.

Refusal to give a new sample would result in a fail.

For the record I was 100% sober whilst going through this program and it's probably the best thing that happened to me. I chose not to be a CI and it got me (relatively) cheap outpatient rehab. 13+ hours a week of therapy and real consequences to my actions. ended a decade-long opiate addiction. So I never cheated on their tests, just conveying my experience.

I did spend my teenage years doing through multiple, less punitive, programs, which is where I draw this experience from.

 

Won't say where. But I saw one of you fuckers in public today. Trenchcoat with hammer and sickle patches, free Palestine shirt, long hair and shit kickers.

I was preoccupied, but hi comrade!

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The N Word (hexbear.net)
submitted 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) by isame@hexbear.net to c/chat@hexbear.net
 

Good attention grabber huh? Don't worry, I don't use it and I'm not trying to say I should.

I recently hung out with my neighbors. They really wanted to smoke me out. I'm 32 living in what is essentially off campus student apartments. 4 bed 4 bath, etc.

They're all Hispanic in this apartment (above me). 2 are from South America - I forget which country - and 2 are from South Florida.

They throw around the N word, never pejoratively. As the only white guy in the room I'm not saying shit.

Question is, is this okay? As a white guy idk.

One of them also said the f slur for gay people and immediately apologized - 'sorry if that offended you '. That one I did tell him he knew it was wrong because he apologized immediately. I have a love always wins bracelet and a rainbow lanyard, very visible.

I'm 10+ years older than these kids. I'm honestly trying to figure out if this is baked-in or if they're just dumb kids and maybe I can be a positive influence. If it's baked-in then I'll just peace out. I don't know the culture and don't want to judge from an uninformed perspective.

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