You didn't ghost her first of all. Inadvertently or otherwise.
This is a pretty easy way to gauge someone's interest by just seeing if they ever message you first.
Really you should just take this as a sign to move on and work on relationships that are two sided. Ones where the other person texts first.
Sorry its happened to you, but its always better now then after you've invested a serious amount of time and emotional energy into a relationship.
I always tell the interviewer what they want to hear. Its very obviously a game of correct answers.
I lie on my resume too, but not in ways I can't back up.
For instance, I imply I have a degree because I did go to college for 4 consecutive years for a multitude of degrees. So I have different resumes with different majors depending on what job I'm applying to. I mostly use my CS/Engineering degree now-a-days. I'm able to talk the talk enough that they've never checked or asked for a transcript.
But it sounds more like your job wanted to, on paper, be compliant with workers rights stuff
"We offer a break at X and Y hours."
But had a cultural expectation to not follow it. Which is dumb and they can, in my humble opinion, get fucked. Nursing has a massive burnout rate and shit like that is why.
I think you should recognize you dodged a bullet more than you should think about "lying" in an interview.