peanuts4life

joined 2 years ago

Now that it's a couple days later, I think I might add a thought to this. It can be invalidating, to have someone ask a victim to empathize with the bully without sufficiently recognizing the victims feelings.

I used to do this sort of thing. I would try to be objective and logical. I learned that this just made my friends feel crazy, like they might be overreacting. I've learned to instead start by validating peoples feelings. I try to recognize thier pain, discomfort, and anger first. And, I never blame people for feeling that anger.

[–] peanuts4life@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 4 weeks ago (3 children)

I second what the other commenters are saying about forgiveness being for you, not to other person, but can I just rant about how useless it is to say no one can truly be bad? It denies the basic utility of words, in my opinion. If someone is an ass, violent, greedy, etc then they are bad. If they change their ways they are good. We have words to describe greedy, violent, assholes. We call them bad people. Hell, a murderer psychopath? Call them evil. It's why we have adjectives.

[–] peanuts4life@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 points 1 month ago

What a neat photo idea

The joke is your odds of being gainfully self employed.

[–] peanuts4life@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I wonder if this actually happened to someone or this is the a case of armchair survivalism.

[–] peanuts4life@lemmy.blahaj.zone 16 points 1 month ago

It is? I'd like to read about that

I feel very lucky to work 4 10 hour days rather than 5 8s. Though, it does often feel like a waste of time when we all spend the last hour and a half taking.

[–] peanuts4life@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

It just looked a lot like an AI image classifier.

[–] peanuts4life@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (4 children)

I don't expect current ai are really configured in such a way that they suffer or exhibit more than rudimentary self awareness. But, it'd be very unfortunate to be a sentient, conscious ai in the near future, and to be denied fundinental rights because your thinking is done "on silicone" rather than on meat.

Do you mean conventional software? Typically software doesn't exhibit emergent properties and operates within the expected parameters. Machine learning and statistically driven software can produce novel results, but typically that is expected. They are designed to behave that way.

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