segfault11

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[–] segfault11@hexbear.net 2 points 12 minutes ago

damn I really made two contradictory posts back to back 🫠

[–] segfault11@hexbear.net 2 points 14 minutes ago

Grrr I didn't really want to post about this but I'm dornk enough to rn

I'm helping my sister move in a few weeks and I'm going to take the opportunity to also come out as trans to her. We haven't been close since she moved away a little over 10 years ago. I wanted to do this last Christmas but it felt weird since I was still pre-everything at the time, plus we were with our parents as a mini-family gathering, which made it all weird. But this time I'll be going on my own at around 6 months on HRT and with some fem clothing. I know she's somewhat accepting of queer people, but idk how she'll react to her lil "bro" being a trans girl.

Idk I'm not looking for advice or whatever, just wanted to vent my anxieties about something coming up πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ

[–] segfault11@hexbear.net 1 points 24 minutes ago

gotta get rice on friday :rebecca-black:

[–] segfault11@hexbear.net 2 points 41 minutes ago* (last edited 35 minutes ago) (1 children)

stuff that might trigger dysphoria for trans womenis it fucked up that I like looking like a guy with long hair and tiny boobs

like I don't pass as a woman at all but I look like a guy who's far from masculine, and I'm okay with it, not just in a coping way. my face is still rough and exposes facial hair shadow. my shoulders are wider than most women my size

I wish I had less fat around my midsection but aside from that I like myself

^boobs^

[–] segfault11@hexbear.net 3 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

is it bad to just catch the highest level exception/error type instead of trying to catch the more specific lower level ones

I'm realizing I always do that, and it feels kinda lazy

[–] segfault11@hexbear.net 20 points 3 hours ago

trump-who-must-go he just died? you're telling me now for the first time

[–] segfault11@hexbear.net 38 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

brace-dark-cowboy If you keep gambling, you'll eventually win. The long arc of the universe favors the gambler, the house just thinks it can outlast you.

[–] segfault11@hexbear.net 16 points 11 hours ago

vape naysh yall

[–] segfault11@hexbear.net 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

fr, mabye the whole stoic shit might actually be appealing if any of them could abide by it instead of coming up with excuses for why they're exempt all the time. as I see it, it's more of a way for guys to shame other guys for minor "infractions" like wearing a jacket when it's cold lol

[–] segfault11@hexbear.net 4 points 1 day ago

would it really be too hard to keep it hidden in your backpack while staying with them?

[–] segfault11@hexbear.net 5 points 1 day ago

"consistent mediocrity" is the key. don't push yourself hard every day, just make sure to go out and do it to some level you can reasonably meet every day (or every other day). I'm able to go jogging 3.5 - 4 miles every day if I really try, but I just make sure to do at least 2 miles every time I go out, and I'll go for more on days where I feel up to it. If I did that 3.5 - 4 miles every day I'd quit in a week, but I've been able to stick to the routine for 2 months so far because I'm not too hard on myself.

 
 
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