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Sending good vibes to all of my trans comrades cat-trans

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[โ€“] magi@hexbear.net 10 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Maybe you expected a lot of confrontation and because it isn't the way you had it laid out in your head is throwing you off?

But congratulations on coming out to family, it's a huge step and I'm glad that they're accepting of you congratulations

[โ€“] Jenniferrr@hexbear.net 11 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Yeah it's like, I feel like they're all on board and then I'm like... What if I'm tricking them? What if I'm secretly cis and I was lying to myself?? Ooohhhh idk lol

[โ€“] magi@hexbear.net 12 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Sounds like anxiety, possibly something similar to imposter syndrome? My guess would be all this long build up to get accepted fairly easily is the reason for feeling like this, could be OCD especially if you've been mulling on this for a long time so ran through all the scenarios in your head, you know with like how you'd respond etc..

Hopefully It will pass once the dust has settled cat-trans

[โ€“] Jenniferrr@hexbear.net 11 points 3 months ago

Thank you, yeah I think it's def imposter syndrome and like requestioning now that I have told so many people. Just makes me crazy