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Gf and I worked things out again. I have BPD tendencies and when we're not communicating I try to preemptively break up.
I want to stop doing that.
sex stuff
Anyway, I think we found a way forward with talking about sex. I'm going to ask if it's a good time to bring up things she tends to shut down about and see if we can find time later if not. And she's going to try to communicate via text when she needs space so I'm not stuck in uncertainty.And this morning we had some sexy time but focused on me. I asked first and let her know we could focus on me and she could stay clothed or not and that I wouldn't touch her erogenous zones unless she asked.
It was nice. Very intense orgasm. Being on estrogen so far has been really affirming when it comes to sex stuff.
not me telling another person with relationship issues So real.
Congrats and good luck.
So happy for you! So glad you were able yo work that out!!
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One of my exes is ace. I was weird about sex so it worked for me, when I transitioned they were more open and I wanted more but we also came up with a similar system of focusing on what I wanted out of it - which took care or the bare need as well as sharing something intimate with someone you love. We didn't break up over that issue at all, totally unrelated lol.In my whole life... I dunno if I'd say sex where both partners are allosexual (is that the word? Not ace) is better or worse. There's something really nice about hearing your partner vocalize and moan and something affirming in being wanted and not initiating every time - but, you get to be way more selfish guilt free if you're with someone who is ace and is willing and able to participate in some way even if that means they still have their clothes on. Plus, not being in the mood but your partner really wants some is kind of a downer. I think I'd be happy with either for a future relationship tbh