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[โ€“] Seryph@lemmygrad.ml 19 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Just found out my last staff party is at a pool. Ugh. Gonna be so awkward being one of the people there not in swimming stuff but it's either that or I skip it entirely.

[โ€“] Ideology@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago (1 children)

That sounds like it would be super awkward even without the trans stuff.

TipsDoubling up on bottoms or wearing swim shorts over a bathing suit should be adequate to conceal things, esp if the inner layer is tight. Swimming/beach gear also tends to include various skirts and things. Tbh in that setting I'd rather not wear something super revealing anyway.

[โ€“] Seryph@lemmygrad.ml 15 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Part of it is that I don't even own any swimwear right now, and I'm definitely not buying any for a work party where I'm only actually out to one coworker. The tips would be what I'd do if I was though so thanks for that, but alas, I'm an idiot who decided not to be out for the 4 months of work I had to do. Ugh.

[โ€“] Ideology@hexbear.net 11 points 2 months ago

Ahh yeah, just wear something casual. Treat yourself to a cute beach date next year. ๐Ÿ˜Ž

[โ€“] DeathToBritain@hexbear.net 9 points 2 months ago

a work party that's at a pool? that's weird at the best of times honestly, let alone trans stuff. even if I were cis I'd still nope out of that