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that's such a frustrating point to be at in transition. those narratives you hear about things clicking so quickly are nice, but they really aren't always the case. some people have things fall in place in half a year, but there are many people who are struggling 2+ years into transition. something to consider is that HRT doesn't just stop at a year, there are many people who talk about changes years into transitionin terms of being gendered correctly, it's so complicated. it could be something as nebulous as how you carry yourself or things that are specific and easier to work on. if you do want to talk about this more, are there transition related things you're still working on?
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well I dress cute as fuck, for one, that I always have going for me and it's getting better all the time. I don't think I look good in skirts or dresses but I'm doing great with slacks and blouses. I have my first laser session coming up too, which is nice because if it works I won't have to shave any more and it might nudge me slightly more towards pass-y. Kind of a lot of stuff honestly; everything about being trans is going great for me, except for the being perceived as, being treated as, and living as a woman partThat sounds pretty cynical, but I am feeling feelings I never even imagined (even though a lot of them aren't great), my social life and my relationships are flourishing, it's involved a lot of personal growth, and I have absolutely no regrets of any sort, sooo, if I have to leave one thought, it's that ✨clocky girlies live happy and fulfilling lives too✨