When people talk about "therapy" here, they most likely are thinking of bog-standard talk therapy, where you just go in and kinda, well, talk to someone about your life, problems, etc.

For some people, it's enough to just get things off their chest, talk about things out loud with someone and helps them deal with their issues. I personally see such a therapist monthly and find it beneficial to my mental health.

For others, especially those with more intense troubles and traumas, it may not be, and would probably be served better by someone more specialized with said traumas.

Like any medical profession, the quality of individual therapists and mental health experts can vary widely, from chuds to libs to comrades and everything in-between. there's a solid chance you may not get the perfect fit on try 1, I didn't.

I just feel like some people are dipping their toes into Scientology-ish "all therapy is bad, never seek professional help for your problems" stuff, which I think is disastrous advice.

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[–] Gorb@hexbear.net 7 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

I agree but I think its important to understand the experiences people have with therapists instead of dismissing them.

Sure help is good and works... In the right conditions and format with the right specialist.... IF you even know what is the root of your trauma in the first place. I imagine a lot of people here have quite serious traumas that aren't alleviated by talk therapy and realistically need a healthcare system with empathy that can triage and direct to the right treatment.

Maybe instead of just telling people "go to therapy" try to understand their problems and maybe give better directed advice. To speak from my own experience i had multiple talk therapist who all made the problems worse and really all i needed was for someone to tell me I'm autistic cos for 25 solid years i had no idea and only really found out what neurodivergence is via this website. Once i found out i did the rest of the work myself as the pieces kind of fell into place and i could seek the correct approach to handle my issues.

I had been to mental health teams multiple times for various problems and not once was this mentioned. Infact the entire UK mental health system seems to actively think these disorders don't even exist. Only recently did it start offering treatment to adults with ADHD and thought people just "grew out of it".

Medical bigotry is pervasive and i can say with some degree of certainty a lot of users have experienced something like this. On the other hand i don't think its useful to tell people not to at least try because for some it may be exactly what they need. But also don't forget this shit isn't free to people which plays a big part in perception. What's needed is a free robust and empathetic mental healthcare system with a good supply of specialists not whatever the fuck mess we have atm.