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Pontifications in the Parking Lot
I get how dating works, but like, it's always something I've had other people to encourage me to do. I'm actually kinda confused by people who don't need any sort of encouragement to do stuff.Then you haven't dated in a long time and people ask you about it and it's like, I'm not in talks with anyone about the concept of romance or what it means to be in a relationship. If I were having conversations about this stuff, it'd be more front of mind. I'd be trying if I knew what and where and when.
I feel this with a lot of stuff. Like, yeah, I think about doing a lot of stuff, but I can't just activate myself like a robot and do everything. Then people ask you why you didn't do it already, and it's like, you could probably help if you need this done sooner???
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You have no obligation to date someone. If you're happy single, be single. You're not wrong for not dating, from what you said it just doesn't seem like a priority for you - which is a completely fine point of view!Unless you mean, like, you weren't sure how to pick up someone lol
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None of it, honestly? Like, I see someone that looks interesting. I know I'm attracted. I don't know what the fuck to do! So I do nothing.I don't always think about dating but I get lonely, and like, people have always approached me, so I don't trust myself to just start a chat. But I'll just stay that way forever with, so far, no inclination to change. I'd like to change, I think I could, but I don't see an actionable path forward so I don't do it
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