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(i ripped this off wikipedia real fast so sorry if it's lib)
In October 1776, the Public Universal Friend contracted an epidemic disease and was bedridden and near death with a high fever. Their family summoned a doctor from Attleboro, six miles away, and neighbors kept up a death-watch at night. The fever broke after several days. The Friend later reported that [deadname redacted] had died, receiving revelations from God through two archangels who proclaimed there was "Room, Room, Room, in the many Mansions of eternal glory for Thee and for everyone". The Friend further said that [deadname redacted]'s soul had ascended to heaven and the body had been reanimated with a new spirit charged by God with preaching his word, that of the "Publick Universal Friend", describing that name in the words of Isaiah 62:2 as "a new name which the mouth of the Lord hath named".
From that time on, the Friend refused to answer to their deadname, ignoring or chastising those who insisted on using it. When visitors asked if it was the name of the person they were addressing, the Friend simply quoted Luke 23:3 ("thou sayest it"). Identifying as neither male nor female, the Friend asked not to be referred to with gendered pronouns. Followers respected these wishes; they referred only to "the Public Universal Friend" or short forms such as "the Friend" or "P.U.F.", and many avoided gender-specific pronouns even in private diaries. When someone asked if the Friend was male or female, the preacher replied "I am that I am", saying the same thing to a man who criticized the Friend's manner of dress (adding, in the latter case, "there is nothing indecent or improper in my dress or appearance; I am not accountable to mortals").
editorial note: I think this is a very cool story and I really love hearing it. We've been around forever and we've been doing variations of this forever. It's really beautiful
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hi, does anyone wanna make the mega in the upcoming weeks? if so, reply to this post and i'll add you to the list!
the list as it stands:
Thallo (10/21 - 10/27)
GenderIsOpSec (10/28 - 11/3)
oscardejarjayes* (11/4 - 11/10)
HelltakerHomosexual* (11/11 - 11/17)
GayTuckerCarlson* (11/18 - 11/24)
Luna* (11/25 - 12/1)
Eco* (12/2 - 12/8)
* after name denotes someone who has posted before and will be skipped by first-time posters
sadly holding a bag of bread in the checkout line
"this isn't what i wanted when i said i wanted to get bred" 
So tired all day today, barely got out of bed 
coworker: you never respond to me
me: when have I ever ignored you?
coworker: yesterday I asked you three things and all you said was "I'm sleepy"
I don't even remember that 
cis women are majestic and intimidating
It's like, how are you so radiant. It's not being attractive, or sexy. It's energy
It puts me in this state of reverence, like I forget I have corporeal form because how could I exist around someone with such a strong vibration
As someone who is male presenting, I feel fundamentally creepy approaching women. Like, as a guy, I don't feel like I can, doing so will label me as a creep
They're people just like you and me. I can see how heteronormative social coding would make that sort of, "approaching someone" difficult but also, women are just people Idk. I can remember thinking this when I was like 12, but all the mystique is not real and invented, probably by straight neurotypicals or something.
Kinda dismayed that I could have missed being a fucking weeb. I wouldn't know what that fucking goddamn Demon Slayer reference means if I hadn't seen One Piece and Naruto on YTV, and then seen that there was a dumbass english-language manga magazine that serialised them. Goddamn, Shueisha.
How do I make my wrists stop hurting? They are sore, when I turn them, exert straight force on them or hold something with weight.
what have you done to them/what do you do with them?
If you're using a phone or a keyboard too long that can fuck them up, if you're punching or impacting things that can fuck them up
If it's acute, rest, ice, neutral position (no flexion/torsion) etc.
If chronic, exercise/train them, be it mobility, strength or whatever.
If concerned, don't take advice from internet strangers and talk with a GP or physio if you can.
My gp gave me an xray req and nothing else so I'm in lol/lmao town on that one. Think I'd be talking to internet strangers if my gp did anything?
I was actually lifting pretty consistently with like 5lbs weights but this has put pay to that for the moment. Idk what or how or when I did to them.
:yea:
Is this a sudden/new pain? Can you attribute it to anything in particular? If you're relatively active/mobile already I'd probably just rest it for the time being, until you can get results back from the xray.
It's hard to know (and worse to pretend to) without seeing it, whether it's muscle, bone, ligament etc.
If you regularly use/move it though, and it's a new/sudden pain, yeah I'd just be resting it. If you don't regularly use/move them though, then you'd probably want to build it up but that doesn't sound like the issue in your case.
I hope you can find some relief though?
I have had wrist pains on and off for a good while (hence talking to my doc) but no I don't think this is due to anything, unless 5lbs weights destroyed my wrists. I will try to rest em...
Normally they are at least okay, but straight pressure has hurt for a year or two now. I was hoping I could build em up... I had my beautiful voidgoblin put a tensor bandage on the one that hurts the most which feels okay.
In a lot of Anglo cultures/communities, which most of you are from so this won't be a surprise, wives take their husbands' last names. In queer couples, they sometimes do it sometimes one takes the other etc. Even in hetero cultures, occasionally the husband takes the wifes' last name (very rare). In Quebec and France and probably a bunch of other Franco places, it's not legal to take your spouses last name lol. Best you can do is double barrel.
I have NO attachment to my last name. It's from my dad, who was and remains an asshole. But I wanna be a good strong feminist and also not buy into this Anglo tradition 😭 At least it's not an actual problem, I am at no risk of getting married anytime soon lol but I would be tempted to take my future spouses last name just to cut off that last bit of my dad.
Okay I obviously have a lot to learn about this puppy girl thing to say it lightly lmao
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I literally have only ever encountered it in terms of pet play, I didn't know y'all had a whole other thing going on and that's on me for not knowing
this is how you can tell you're an older trans :p. I've dated several puppy girls , 2 rabbit girls, and a cat girl. you'd think the cat would be more than bunny
I’m not that old, and I have hardly interacted with the therian community personally. Kind of it’s own community. I also live under a rock.
I know of Therians via the otherkin community but i haven't met many of either.
This isn't an age thing, it's purely just not being aware. I have heard of Therian people almost a decade ago but I have been in different communities.
Nooooo my age is shooooowing
Not enough time on tumblr, I see 
My time on tumblr is spent drooling over girl twinks and hot guys also
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Blood play and knife play and hard vore lol
That's only like two or three degrees removed from the doggirl communities, how did you miss this 
Too many degrees, simple as
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Same!
Oh shoot should I spoiler something??? I'm so bad about it aaaaaa
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I just lean toward spoilering anything in discussions that could be triggering for folks! Not like it takes much time. ^^
damn. i regret my choice of girl name today after realizing i could have named myself Ligma
Kinda wish there were catgirl equivalents to the puppygirl line emotes...
I'm so pushing this through now
Lfg!!!
https://store.line.me/emojishop/product/5bfe3880031a67fad2872ad0/en You will have to inspect element pt something to get them tho
Edit also https://store.line.me/stickershop/product/3930164/en
NO WAY
I would never nick these...
Also though pay for emotes? What is this, discord?
