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I honestly have no idea how normal people perceived me and usually would prefer for them not to
dysphoria, misgendering, family shit
I know I probably look closer to Zizek than I'd like to ideallyI mean I am clean shaven and less disheveled looking generally but still
I can never tell why I get quizzical glances from people in public? Is it that I'm anxious and socially awkward looking and they're concerned for me? Is it that I'm malefailing in boymode kinda and my tits are kinda visible under my hoodie and it looks weird on someone of my height/build? Is it that I look like a really big butch bitch without any makeup or femme signifiers? Fuck if I know, but I know my brain will screech at itself the entire time trying to figure that out unsuccessfully
My cool(ish) queer relative I went with is sweet and supportive overall but I still get a mix of name/deadname and a random D3 roll on pronouns of he/they/she and it's maddening sometimes
It's like they're just humoring me out of pity or going along with it when they get it right and it's like a kindness they get to graciously bestow upon me sometimes when they bother to remember, and when they don't it's "well I've known you as (deadname) since you were a baby!"
I've been out to you for like half a fucking decade
I'm sure they (cis) and their also queer spouse (cis) wouldn't like if I misgendered them offhandedly randomly either or called them by a masculine version of their names
I'm so sick of feeling like a basic fundamental part of my identity is like a fun little quirk that's fine to fuck up and it's not a big deal to some of the only family that I'm out to and is 'supportive'
(Part of it is that they're boomers, and part of it is that they're libs, but they love being One Of The Good Ones and it can be exhausting not blowing up on them and alienating myself from some of the only IRL support I have)
oh no
Oh god oh fuck, uh I just try not to worry about it, if I am feeling nice I smile, if I am feeling confrontational I stare. There's no knowing how or why people stare, but I don't think most people (or maybe anyone) stare with that intent, Idk. Fuckin people...
Big "ish", like I know I have this baseball bat but I just want to talk to 'em...
I hate this too, I fought people over shit like this. You deserve better treatment and more respect than that at the least.
lmao libshit/Isntreal-Palestine
Lmao I was giving her directions driving and one of them was "past the place with the fuckin' 🇮🇱 flag" and she was like "well there's nothing wrong with a flag" and I compared it to the Third Reich's flag (her wife is German) and she was like "well you could say that about the flag, you wouldn't do that, would you?!" and I was like "I can, and do" and she was quiet for awhile(she's usually motormouthed and chatting almost constantly)
She has "rules based international order" "humanitarian liberal interventionist" and still has positive views of and and thinks is and is or whatever
ULYSSEST TYPE POST ALERT, EMOTE CITY
Glad you said this, absolutely based. Soak in that silence.
made her STFU, soaked in the silence so hard they thought I went to BYU
went a bit overboard with the emotes lol sorry but I was kinda On One