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K (189?–?) Soviet pioneer. From Kazan, Tartarstan, USSR, K was diagnosed as a ‘transvestite’ in 1937.

She was given permission by the People’s Court to wear female clothing, her identity papers were changed to her female name, and her name was removed from the military recruitment rolls.

She was featured in a 1957 gynaecology textbook.

M.G. Serdiukov. Sudebnaia ginekologiia I sudebnoi akusherstvo. Moscow: Meditsina 1957: 47-8.
Dan Healey. Homosexual Desire in Revolutionary Russia: The Regulation of Sexual and Gender Dissent. Chicago and London: The University of Chicago Press, 2001: fig 24.

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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 12 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

You don't have to? Who's making you?

You can always do the classic of sapphic thing of waking up one day with a girl that lives with you, that you share a bank account with, with who you spend all your time, that you make out with, who you might share a child with and wondering if she would agree to be your girlfriend or not lol

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 14 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

okay that's the goal but like

where do i find a girl like that if not shudders the apps?

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 11 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago) (1 children)

The same way girls have done it before apps: school, work, gay bars, theater, volunteering, community events, etc. I mean, use the apps if they're available I guess, but its not obligatory. Hopefully it's better for queer dating.

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 9 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

true, true. i guess i just kind of failed with the last girl i met off the not apps because i'm like 98% sure she isn't into me after months of "maybe?" and so now i feel like i'm just going for the opposite thing first

that and i haven't even been on the apps since transitioning so maybe this will be better for me idk

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 10 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

Did you ever tell your crush how you feel?

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 10 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago) (1 children)

no. tl;dr without doxxing myself too hard i can't go to the normal social activity that we both normally go to and i haven't done a lot of talking to her since. i should do it but i haven't really been able to like. talk to her face to face and not around several other acquaintances.

i'll figure it out soon though

everybody keeps telling me that the answer isn't set in stone like i think it is but i can't help but thinking i know the answer here and that this can only end the one way, and it's me getting disappointed and hurt

idk, the more i think about it the more i feel like i'm just in a really bad emotional space right now and that now isn't the time for me to do it. idk what the answer here is

god i love women so much it's unreal. how come i can't find anyone who loves me like i love other women this hurts so bad niko-cri

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 10 points 3 weeks ago

the more i think about it the more i feel like i'm just in a really bad emotional space right now

Yeah, you're probably right meow-hug

god i love women so much it's unreal. how come i can't find anyone who loves me like i love other women this hurts so bad

One day you will :] just keep building your confidence~

If you haven't been able to get her alone, you could always just ask if she wants to hang out BECAUSE you haven't been able to make the activity lately...