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Reddit's century club taught me the concept of the "courtesy upvote."
Someone replies to one of my posts? Upvote.
Someone replies to one of my comments? Upvote, even if I disagree with them.
Someone makes a post interesting enough for me to comment? Upvote.
Upvotes are basically the ultimate participation trophy.
Reply upvoted!
I like that.:-) It helps to affirm that there are many responses someone could deliver - ranging at the low end to reporting the content and/or blocking the account, to the more neutral simply scroll past ignoring it, up to the positives of offering a reply, even with a (respectfully delivered) disagreement. The latter is not "negative" if the goal is communication, community, and/or seeking out the truth.
Edit: although I'm trying on purpose to not respond to every comment offered in an Ask-* style community even when I am the OP, to allow for room for others to speak as well:-).