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What are red flags you look out for in a relationship? (piefed.social)
submitted 1 week ago by OpenStars@piefed.social to c/AskUSA@discuss.online
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Rather than put my answers, I will leave space for you to jump in directly with yours:-).

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[–] superduperpirate@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)
  • doesn’t return shopping cart to corral at the store
  • rude to service industry people or anyone else they see as being lower status
  • mean to animals
  • if she has kids, treats them as a burden/neglects them
  • expects me to pick up the tab for everything at all times, excepting rare situations like “we’ve been together a while & live together, she just lost her job but is actively looking”
  • has a breathalyzer interlock on her car’s ignition
  • in general, acts cruel or mean to people without obvious provocation
  • any form of physical, emotional, or verbal abuse
  • excessive consumption of alcohol or marijuana
  • any consumption of harder drugs
  • any other sign of gross immaturity or irresponsibility not listed above - i’m looking for a partner, not a dependant
[–] OpenStars@piefed.social 2 points 1 week ago

Oof that hurts a bit - fortunately (?!) at the receiving rather than offering end. Great list.:-)