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[–] Acute_Engles@hexbear.net 44 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (3 children)

I've always been so jealous of NEETs like imagine not having the burning anxiety of wondering where your next meal would come from if you stopped working for a few days

Edit: i understand i have an idealized version in my mind, I'm sure it's just a side effect of having to work to pay rent since i was 14

[–] Xenomorph@hexbear.net 52 points 1 week ago (3 children)

It's not good. I'm not neet by choice, I've been dealing with a host of mental and physical problems that bar me from any real gainful employment. I'm at the whim of my family whom I'm at odds with over stuff like food and housing and if on a bad day they don't want to put up with me anymore they can cut me right off! Sure I have free time I can use to pursue hobbies and stuff but I'd rather have the piece of mind of having to not worry about food and shelter anymore. sadness

[–] Acute_Engles@hexbear.net 44 points 1 week ago

Self Crit time, my conception of a NEET was that of a person otherwise capable of working for their own subsistence but choosing not to. This is still a pretty reactionary idea though, as in essentially buying into the capitalist idea that you don't deserve what you have if you don't sell your labor to get it. Guess i should do more thinking on the matter.

I'm sorry you find yourself in that situation and i hope you can find a way through it.

[–] DragonBallZinn@hexbear.net 12 points 1 week ago (1 children)

NGL, I wish there was an online support group for involuntary NEETs (inNEETS?) where it tries to actually be a productive, non-toxic place for people down on their luck.

[–] Frank@hexbear.net 3 points 1 week ago

The whole concept of "NEET" was invented by neoliberals as an alternative to saying "unemployed". They needed a way to discuss the unemployment of "socially desirable" people; White men from middle income families who in prior times would have been training to be white collar professionals. "NEET" divides the reserver army of labor in to morally good and morally depraved categories - NEETs are contrasted with Reaganite nonsense like "Welfare queens".

[–] Lemister@hexbear.net 41 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

I understand. A lot of "NEETs" are disabled or neurodivergent in truth and rarely are the "welfare queens" that play video games all day. Besides the hatred of NEETs is comes from the "cult of productivity" rather than any true concern about self-fulfilment or alienation from labour.

[–] Acute_Engles@hexbear.net 24 points 1 week ago

Yeah that's what I'm thinking i need to reassess about my little brain worms

[–] DragonBallZinn@hexbear.net 16 points 1 week ago

Can confirm as a laid-off NEET. This was literally forced on me.

Porky’s a very very picky guy and he’s more than spoiled for choice.

[–] WizardOfLoneliness@hexbear.net 28 points 1 week ago (1 children)

jealous of NEETs like imagine not having the burning anxiety of wondering where your next meal would come from if you stopped working for a few days

Yeah you just got the burning anxiety that your probably racist libertarian leaning parents will decide shoving you into the streets will help you "get over" your entire personality

[–] Acute_Engles@hexbear.net 25 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Yeah I'm leaving that comment up because I need the pushback but you're right. Bad take on my part

[–] WizardOfLoneliness@hexbear.net 14 points 1 week ago (1 children)

it's okay dawg hope I didn't make you feel bad about it

[–] Acute_Engles@hexbear.net 10 points 1 week ago

Nah, nobody said they were hurt by what i said so i don't feel bad. I would rather learn and grow, y'know? Being wrong is actually ok and good sometimes