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so who is playin deltarune? i finished it through chapter 4 and now i'm gonna get both types of run in the can so i can pretend i'm not back to waiting a year for the next part. how bout those new secret bosses? how bout that damn
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roaring knight?
it's nice to have parts of this game be as hard as sands undertale.
also, susie is my favorite, she's precious, everyone drop your favorite susie moments in the comments
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Hi,
I'm transfem and also not on HRT :]
I have a wife that I love a lot :3
You'll fit in here~
I want to get on HRT eventually I hope once I move out, but will see, I'm like still visibly gender trangressive and I get shit for that lol but I really would want HRT probably I think
sex, hrt
I hope HRT just fucks up my libido cause I just hate the T libido, although this is probably me selfhating than dysphoric, dunno, always disliked it and found it "disgusting" and forceful on my partner, but I probably shouldnt view HRT as a means to this. I do find my current body repulsive but I dont know if the self hate stems from dysphoria or the dysphoria comes from self hate lmaoI had a discussion a bit ago with my partner about this and she kinda told me she felt objectified by me in certain instances as I'm just overwhelming with T libido and I'm trying not to self hate about it but... Dunno, sucks.
I want to qualitatively achieve a better point in life but I dont feel like "deserving of it" at all and idk brain pep talk is bad, as usual
Sapping my energy by debating myself about selfhate moment
Thank you for the welcome though ^^ i talk a lot sorry lol
You're pent up because you have been lurking instead of posting
Stick around and I'm sure everyone here will agree you "deserve" to have good things~
I gaslight myself into thinking I:
You will have many things to talk about if you just look at the random dumb incidents in your life.
..I guess there is the apprehension that I dont want to get "judged" in a negative sense, even if silly and if people are supportive
Nah, you ain't gonna get judged. I've said embarrassing as hell things on here and it's fine. You can check my post history as proof.
Just start out with small things.
Even if I say something I should selfcrit for the feedback is good after all I guess
Thankies:3
Thank you for the welcome:3
Welcome!
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When I went on hrt and lost my libido, it was really nice at first. But in my experience, I didn't gain any "E libido" after (idk if that's even a thing). It has made things difficult for me. And I don't even have a partner that I need to attend. I just feel frustrated.
I'm not trying to discourage you. I wouldn't stop doing HRT no matter the cost. But maybe you should just know what the possible range of experiences is.
Friend of mine is on HRT and said that increasing the dosage made her gain a lot of libido back so maybe it is that? Unsure
Hmmmmmmmmm. I'm on the higher end of dosage, so it might be on a case by case basis. I'm also 90% sure temperature is playing a factor.
For me even without E temp always played a factor but dunno
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i dont like my libido cause i perceieve it as "manly" and imposing especially on my girlfriend as she is wayy on the low libido side (in her case id say its stress right now), and just makes me feel shitty like a demanding piece of shit