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I do so much better in small groups then I do 1 on 1 and I hate it (hexbear.net)

submitted 1 month ago by BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net to c/chat@hexbear.net

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Just sucks wanting to/actually hanging out with someone 1 on 1 and there's silence and I worry they aren't having a good time with me. Then we bring another person in and everyone is talking a lot more and seem more comfortable. Why am I weird alone with people :/ tbh makes me very worried about dating or being in a relationship too. Even in a platonic friendship it makes me feel very anxious about what they think of me and our relationship. Like idk I like you I just don't have much to say but then suddenly do when there's more people?? I don't get it so how is anyone else going to

inb4 autism

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[–] makotech222@hexbear.net 5 points 1 month ago

so funny, i'm the exact opposite. I love 1 on 1 convos and I can carry them so easily, but if another person joins in I become completely silent