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[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 12 points 10 months ago (1 children)

It was a little jarring to get together with some of my guy friends and they were talking about weight/lifting and then they started teasing me for being small (I'm objectively not). I never realized how much being large was tied up in masculinity. Like obviously being tall would be, but I didn't realize how much weight was. They all just wanted to bulk up and get huge.

...and I just don't.

cw for body hatred and EDI'm always missing the days of when I was smaller, even if I wasn't any healthier. I hate how big and gross I feel.

worried about being transI'm scared. I don't want to be trans. Why can't these feelings just go away. I don't know if I'm a transwoman but I'm still scared. Why can't I just be a normal guy. I hate society. If it weren't for this FUCKING SOCIETY it would all be okay. I could shave, I could dress how I want, maybe even give hrt a spin. But I can't. Its just too hard. I'm crying. I hate gender. Goodnight Hexbear. Sorry for the trauma dump, this one got out of hand.