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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 22 points 5 months ago (2 children)

trip report from shopping for fun girl clothes at H&M:

No, no, no, no, no, looks cute but they only have medium and small in stock, no, no, no, no, looks cute but they only have medium and small in stock, no, no, no, no, looks cute but they only have medium and small in stock, no, no, no, no, looks cute but they only have medium and small in stock, no, no, no, no, looks cute but they only have medium and small in stock, no, no, no, no, looks cute but they only have medium and small in stock, no, no, no, no, looks cute but they only have medium and small in stock, no, no, no, no, looks cute but they only have medium and small in stock, no, no, no, no, looks cute but they only have medium and small in stock, no, no, no, no, looks cute but they only have medium and small in stock, no, no, no, no, looks cute but they only have medium and small in stock, no, no, no, no, looks cute but they only have medium and small in stock, no, no, no, no, your coworker from the other department, no, no, agony-consuming OH FUCK, YOUR COWORKER??? ABORT NOW

[–] Jenniferrr@hexbear.net 9 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (1 children)

Woah only medium and smalls? My local H&M always has some larges and XL's. I'm a large or xl myself (sometimes xxl) which is pretty annoying. I'm not even that big my upper body is just pretty muscular.

Have you tried going to thrift shops yet? Alot of places sort by size there and that can make it way way easier

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 6 points 5 months ago (1 children)

honestly i think it was just bad luck. they'll probably get more Ls and XLs in by next week. still really disappointing though

[–] Jenniferrr@hexbear.net 8 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Yeah :/ idk what your body type is but I absolutely LOVE these pants I got h&m ( link. They do so much for hips and just look so cute. Then pair it with some tight top and it's just amazing, maybe a sports bra. I have some recommendations if you like

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 7 points 5 months ago (1 children)

yeah :( idk i think i have to take a bit of a break from clothes at the moment. it is really fucking hard

[–] Jenniferrr@hexbear.net 6 points 5 months ago (1 children)

It is. Do you have friends to go with? It can be really scary. If there are any queer centric thrift shops near you those can be pretty comfy places.

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 5 points 5 months ago (1 children)

It is. Do you have friends to go with?

oh god, you think i had the courage to do it without my friends? i don't know if i have it in me to do it without. i might one day but not for right now

[–] Jenniferrr@hexbear.net 6 points 5 months ago

Lol the first time I did it it was by myself and it was so so so scary. Same with going out in girlmode - went out foe the first time in another city in another country. I can't describe to you how scared I was haha. Absolutely mortified.

[–] Yor@hexbear.net 7 points 5 months ago

REAL