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[โ€“] Bat@hexbear.net 10 points 9 months ago (3 children)

How do I tie my hair up and have it make me look more feminine instead of more masculine?

[โ€“] combat_brandonism@hexbear.net 8 points 9 months ago (1 children)

the higher the ponytail the more fem probably? idk you could try a braid too

[โ€“] ashinadash@hexbear.net 5 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Please tell me that the height of your ponytail does not correlate to masculinity/femininity. sadness-abysmal

[โ€“] combat_brandonism@hexbear.net 2 points 9 months ago (1 children)

low: slightly masc
mid: fem
high: slightly fem

[โ€“] ashinadash@hexbear.net 4 points 9 months ago (1 children)
[โ€“] combat_brandonism@hexbear.net 3 points 9 months ago (1 children)
[โ€“] ashinadash@hexbear.net 2 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Because the idea that ponytail height is gendered is VERY silly!

[โ€“] combat_brandonism@hexbear.net 3 points 9 months ago (1 children)

yeah, all gender performance is silly. doesn't mean it's not a thing

[โ€“] DerEwigeAtheist@hexbear.net 6 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

A nice hair accessory, or colourfull hairtie? There are these clamps shaped like flowers, for example.

[โ€“] Seryph@lemmygrad.ml 6 points 9 months ago

If you style the front half a little bit you can make a very femme look without doing much to the back. A lazy option if you have long framing hairs is that you can just leave those out of the tied up portion so that they droop down to frame your face and look cute.

Alternatively add an accessory or two that's distinctly femme.