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[–] TheDoctor@hexbear.net 3 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (1 children)

I have a note in my phone to keep me grounded with certain obsessions. For transition, it’s a lot of, “2024-03-12 - I just boymoded for 3 weeks straight and it caused me to drop all my self care and fall into a depression. Putting on a skirt made me feel better almost instantly. This was a Very Cis thing to do.”

Just so I have a list of concrete experiences that I know aren’t purely an OCD thing. I catch myself falling into patterns when the OCD isn’t actively driving my thought process and note them down.

(Oh, also, I get the pedestrians one too. Lots of ego-dystonic intrusive imagery about random violence)

[–] Jenniferrr@hexbear.net 3 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Yeah I should do that. I get lots of dysphoria from boymodinf myself but I don't go too long (just work days basically, but I definitely code switch and it makes me feel insane and awful)

[–] TheDoctor@hexbear.net 3 points 8 months ago

I haven’t gotten to that point yet but I’d imagine it fucks with you, yeah. I’m sorry you’ve gotta deal with that.