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[–] khizuo@hexbear.net 12 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (2 children)

sadposting, depersonalization, discussion of traumaI’ve been feeling very… out of it. Kind of untethered to reality. And that reality includes friends who care about me, it even includes the funny bear website (hence why I haven’t been posting.) Part of it is the fact that I got way hyperfixated, and I turned to that hyperfixation to take my mind off of some shitty life circumstances, but now I don’t know how to pull myself back. Looking in the mirror is so weird because I don’t feel like I’m looking at myself in it, whoever “myself” is; even more than usual. I don’t feel like I’m looking at a real person. Part of me honestly wants to sink into my hyperfixations forever and just drift away from reality and completely into my own mind, but like, I can’t do that. Doesn’t help that I just went through something kind of traumatic and I have no idea how to process it.

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 9 points 6 months ago

wordsLife has been so tough for you recently... I feel for you

The depersonalization, rumination, health, the body... It can all be so overwhelming. It can feel like you're stuck and the world is moving around you.

I hope you keep holding on until you're yourself again. The processing won't happen immediately. It will all pass eventually ❤️

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 4 points 6 months ago

spoiler:meow-hug: I relate to the second half so much. There's just a corpse in the mirror.

And why can't we just sink into our own minds :kitty-cri: