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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 20 points 2 months ago (3 children)

I might be developing a fear of men.

cw: assaultI keep having nightmares were some strange man I don’t know wants to do things to me and they are too strong for me to overpower them.

[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 11 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I think I put too many points into Half-Life.

my psyche is like“men want to harm you and you are a 5’3 estrogenized boygirl thing who cannot stop it!!!!!” de-half-light

[–] magi@hexbear.net 8 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

I have a presence that I've had men back off..

I'm always wary of people though

[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 11 points 2 months ago (1 children)

My presence is letting a dude sexually harass me for half an hour hoping he will take the hint or get bored and walk away yea

[–] magi@hexbear.net 7 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

The guy wouldn't last a few seconds with me, but it's valid to have fear of men.

cw abuse

spoilerI was abused and bullied
so I've had to stand up for myself most of my life, so I can stand my ground.. I learned to project my presence because of my upbringing, I don't fear people but I'm wary y'know..

[–] rayne@hexbear.net 10 points 2 months ago

I've only started social transitioning and am having that same fear. My plan is to take some women's self-defense courses with my girlfriend. And to do it soon.

[–] QueerCommie@hexbear.net 8 points 2 months ago

I’m strong and decently sized, but men still scare me when I’m in the man/bear scenario (I go outside) and beyond.