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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 2 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I don’t know if we can have a conversation if you can’t admit that the vast majority of cis women have a majority of traits people associate with females. They don’t have to have literally all of them, but they all do (for the most part) have enough that they aren’t gonna look like men if they slack on a beauty regiment.

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 7 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Uh, sure I can. Less facial hair, generally wider hips, longer hair, shorter arms? These are associated as "female" whether or not they actually are.

What's the thresshold of "enough female traits"?

[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 3 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I’m not gonna scientifically quantify it and play your stupid game where because I can’t down to the exact percentage I am wrong.

We both know what I am talking about we both know what I mean. For trans woman the balance of traits is different and often leaning in the other direction so every little thing you can do to alter that matters in a way it just doesn’t to cis woman.

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 10 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I’m not gonna scientifically quantify it and play your stupid game where because I can’t down to the exact percentage I am wrong.

Right, so do you see where people draw the phrenology comparison? Your own rules for the game, here. You specified.

For trans woman the balance of traits is different and often leaning in the other direction

Um this is far from being a universal truth. Like on average, sure, maybe amab people are gonna have more masc traits since they've been on testosterone... but that is what estrogen is for. It's pretty good ag feminising.

I know "what you mean and are talking about" insofar as that you are dysphoric and not getting gendered correctly, but not so much "this is cope" "you are delusional" "a woman looks like a woman no matter what". You have been saying some incorrect and shitty stuff, at other people, where this could have been a spoilered vent instead or something.

[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 2 points 3 months ago (1 children)
[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 10 points 3 months ago

Okay, I hope you feel better soon cat-trans