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[–] rainn@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I got cat called by a guy and I'm not even on E, lmao. But mostly happens during night time for me. If I wear a mask and loose clothing I always get her'd and I like it

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 10 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I can't even imagine, I'm probably going to cry the first time my friend uses they/them for me but getting she/her'd without even asking sicko-wistful one day that will be me!

[–] rainn@hexbear.net 9 points 1 month ago

For me it happens from afar or it's dark outside, when I'm close not really, I also have a deep voice and I haven't done any voice training so far. Wearing a mask helps due to long hair in my case

All these people immediately walk back once I get closer on what they said and so on, not great lol

I'm sure you will get there^^

[–] Seryph@lemmygrad.ml 8 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Maybe don't put too much expectation on catcalling feeling euphoric, it varies from person to person. For me I felt absolutely no euphoria from it despite expecting to prior to it happening. I know others do find it euphoric the first few times though.

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Sorry, I was talking about the second half:

If I wear a mask and loose clothing I always get her'd and I like it

Yea I'm probably going to be terrified when I get cat called.

[–] Seryph@lemmygrad.ml 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)

You don't have to apologise, I'm just making sure you don't get hurt

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 7 points 1 month ago

yea I appreciate that.