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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 20 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (7 children)

I have a confession, I don't know any of you lol

I don't read your usernames, I don't even look at your pfps. If I start to recognize you by your pfp and you change it, you're like a new person to me.

I feel like I've repeated myself a few times but that's cause I don't know who I'm talking to. As far as I know, you're a brand new person every time unless we're in replies and even then, if there's a new comment by you and I replied to the new one - I dunno who you are lol. Sorry if I repeated myself to you but I've been doing this for like 4 years and I don't anticipate anything changing

[–] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 20 points 3 months ago (1 children)

i on the other hand neurotically catalogue each username and my interactions with the user lea-ugh i cant stop

[–] Yor@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago (1 children)
[–] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago (2 children)

except in the meatspace. there i dont fucking remember anyones name no matter how many time's i''m told negative

[–] Seryph@lemmygrad.ml 15 points 3 months ago
[–] AcidSmiley@hexbear.net 8 points 3 months ago

Yeah, it's always "Hi, i'm [Name]" and i'm like "Hi [Name], nice to meet you" and halfway through my reply i've already forgotten what that person is called.

[–] magi@hexbear.net 12 points 3 months ago

Varies for me, pfp + name or partial name is what I remember but can get thrown off if someone changes their pfp from time to time

[–] Babs@hexbear.net 12 points 3 months ago

There was a time where I would remember other trans users. That was before the trans megathread became the most active part of this site.

If you have a profile pic or name is just an actual irl name, I probably see you.

[–] Luna@hexbear.net 11 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

I'm one of those people who remembers almost everyone, even pfp changes don't seem to throw me off.

[–] QueerCommie@hexbear.net 8 points 3 months ago

Interesting, I’m the same way if there’s no pfp or I don’t see you a lot. However, I have cataloged very many online people’s personalities.

[–] citrussy_capybara@hexbear.net 8 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

don’t need pfps, looks less cluttered turning them off.