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Edit: it appears that this is not exclusive to ADHD.

Posting this meme stemmed from my own efforts to explain my thought process when doing math and how it is similar to other people with ADHD doing math, while being different from every neurotypical person I'd talked to on the same subject.

While I didn't make the meme itself, instead finding it in my saves and wanting to share, I did accidentally spread misinformation that I had only backed up with personal anecdotal evidence.

I'll leave this up just so people can see the explanation below but this appears to not be ADHD related and just due to different people doing math in their heads differently...

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[–] argentcorvid@midwest.social 144 points 4 months ago (3 children)

uhhhh that's not how everyone does it?

[–] Sludgeyy@lemmy.world 37 points 4 months ago (1 children)

7+6

You need 3 to get to 10. 3 left over. 10+3=13.

I'd split up the 6 into (3,3) in my head

Same thing as 7+3+3

[–] Pandantic@midwest.social 18 points 4 months ago

Common core math calls that “friendly numbers”.

[–] The_Che_Banana@beehaw.org 11 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Nah, I'm down with the 9s. 9+6 is 15 so it must be 13

[–] BirdyBoogleBop@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

Nah that's 8+8=16 so 16 -2 is 14. 14 -1 is 13, so 13. or as my maths teacher said. Wat? 1 point, negative 0.5 for incorrect formula 0.5 total. Even though it always worked!

Edit: Hell other ways to work it out. 7+7=13 logically vs my calculator so 5+5+5 = 15. 15 is incorrect why? because +5 is +2 more than necessary so 7+7 must equal 5+5+3 which = 13 or as my mental maths exam told me Fuck you! You Fail! Can't do maths in 10 seconds then you are either retarded or have another mental issue, to the stupid class you go! (It wasn't stupid class if those students got the support they needed they would have excelled!) (You had to pretend to be "normal" to make "academic progress"))

3+3 =6. 6 < 7 so 3+3+3+3 = 12 but 6<7 so 12+0.5+0.5 =13

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[–] boredsquirrel@slrpnk.net 121 points 4 months ago (1 children)

This has nothing to do with ADHD... mixing up stuff is just confusing people

[–] glimse@lemmy.world 46 points 4 months ago (3 children)

I try not to be all "that's not ADHD that's just normal" here but yeah this one has nothing to do with ADHD.

[–] boredsquirrel@slrpnk.net 30 points 4 months ago (1 children)

A Therapist told me that there is a lot of nonsense on the web, especially in the AuDHD space, and yeah it tends to go in a "you are a scorpio, you do X" way

[–] midnight_puker@sh.itjust.works 10 points 4 months ago (1 children)

I'm a scorpio and I do X all the time

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[–] Graphy@lemmy.world 13 points 4 months ago

One of the worst parts of the latest ADHD wave

[–] Pandantic@midwest.social 4 points 4 months ago

And I try not to be all “I’m not ADHD and I do this” on this com, but it’s true.

[–] ealoe@ani.social 60 points 4 months ago (1 children)

This has absolutely nothing to do with ADHD

[–] notanaltaccount@lemmy.world 5 points 4 months ago

I have no attention span and this is not how I do math.

[–] Trashcan@lemmy.world 54 points 4 months ago (1 children)

I'm sorry, but this is a silly statement. This is by no means an ADHD thing. It's a pattern understanding or logic

I'm trying to teach my kid this. Not to use this specific method for addition, but recognize and understand patterns in math.

[–] ThatWeirdGuy1001@lemmy.world 17 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

What most people misunderstand about mental illness diagnoses is that most people have most of these symptoms. It's only when these symptoms overlap and disrupt your ability to *healthily function as an individual that they require a diagnosis and medication/therapy.

Edit: Added healthily as that's the real distinction.

[–] Max_P@lemmy.max-p.me 50 points 4 months ago (7 children)

That's the smart way to do math. I mean not with such small numbers but you'd do the same thing adding up large numbers, you break down the numbers and rearrange them in a way that's easier to compute.

Algebra probably feels intuitive to you.

They're also trying to teach that in math classes (it gets called "new" math) but the boomers are freaking out because "why can't they just do normal additions like we used to, this is so complicated". And the answer to that is, 99% of the time you'll be doing algebra because we literally all carry a calculator in our pockets and sometimes on our wrists at all times and we never need to just do a long division. And that kind of thinking really makes it easy to break down formulas because your brain thinks in terms of moving stuff around in an equation.

[–] Gigasser@lemmy.world 10 points 4 months ago (1 children)

I think the reason "new math" gets flack, is because it's a new way of teaching math, and alot of teachers aren't as good at teaching in that way yet. Still, kids should be taught that it can be a way one does calculations. Another thing I think should be incorporated into early childhood education is the use of an abacus, the Japanese do this and it supposedly helps greatly with mental math.

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[–] MelodiousFunk@slrpnk.net 6 points 4 months ago

They're also trying to teach that in math classes (it gets called "new" math) but the boomers are freaking out because "why can't they just do normal additions like we used to, this is so complicated".

So, as a childless Xennial, I have to ask... is today's "new math" the same "new math" that people complained about in the 60s?

https://youtu.be/W6OaYPVueW4

If so, that's an awfully long time for something to be shunned as "new."

we never need to just do a long division.

Truth. I recently got a neuropsych evaluation and part of it was an unexpected (to me) IQ test. And staring me in the face, for the first time in ~30 years, was a few pages of arithmetic problems. Took me a minute to recall how to do decimal multiplication but it did come back to me. Long division? Nope. Had no freaking clue. Given that it was timed I just left blank anything I couldn't work out in my head. Maybe if I had time for trial and error I could have eventually figured it out. But one thing is for sure... the odds of me ever needing that skill again are fairly low.

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[–] MacGuffin94@lemmy.world 32 points 4 months ago (1 children)

This is how it is supposed to be taught. Common core has this exact quality of numbers explicitly shield or in primary school curriculum. Numbers are not static objects but the composite of infinite functions that can be used to determine the value in whatever base number system you want. Next time someone says school didn't teach math remind them that the US is something like 30th in the world at math and when the department of education tried to do something about it parents said it was too hard to understand and we just kept falling backwards.

Source : I have a BA and masters in math with a focus on education

[–] Murdoc@sh.itjust.works 6 points 4 months ago

I agree that this is how it should be taught. I wasn't taught it until high school. And even then it was by a university student who came to our physics class to talk to us about the kinds of things we could expect in university. :p

I'm in Canada btw.

[–] drew_belloc@programming.dev 27 points 4 months ago

No, since 6+6=12, then because 7 is one more than 6, 6+7=13

[–] MonkderDritte@feddit.de 23 points 4 months ago (2 children)

7 + how much is ten? 3
How much is left? 3
Ten plus however much is left = 13

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[–] ornery_chemist@mander.xyz 19 points 4 months ago (3 children)

7 is closer to 10 than 6 so we consider that 7 is really just a 10 with a size-3 hole in it and we fill that hole with 3 from the 6 giving a 10 with 3 left over which make 13.

Also not an ADHD thing.

[–] 0ops@lemm.ee 7 points 4 months ago

That's my strat too. Also confused what this has to do with adhd

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[–] souperk@reddthat.com 18 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

6=3+3, 7+3=10, 10+3=13

PS I had to edit this post because of typos.

[–] silent_water@hexbear.net 18 points 4 months ago (1 children)

wait, no, this is how everyone does math. right? ...right?

[–] Thordros@hexbear.net 5 points 4 months ago

I think so, but I'm so deep on the autism spectrum that I'm probably SCUBA-certified, so...

sans-shrug

[–] KillingTimeItself@lemmy.dbzer0.com 16 points 4 months ago

i was gonna say, this is ADHD math? I just thought this was mental math in short lmao.

[–] GarbageShoot@hexbear.net 15 points 4 months ago (1 children)

That's just called using heuristics, friend, though if ADHD impeded their progress in math, maybe ADHD people rely more on heuristics than neurotypicals do.

[–] somename@hexbear.net 11 points 4 months ago

Yeah this is just math.

[–] vxx@lemmy.world 15 points 4 months ago

That's how our math teacher taught us to take shortcuts in elementary school.

[–] ArcticAmphibian@lemmus.org 13 points 4 months ago

7+6=? 7+3+3=? 10+3=? 13=13 (Not ADHD)

[–] ryven@lemmy.dbzer0.com 12 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Interesting, I make sets of 10. When I see 7 and 6, half of the 6 moves over to make 10 + 3. I say "moves over" because it feels like dividing tokens into sets in my head.

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[–] hornedfiend@sopuli.xyz 12 points 4 months ago (4 children)

I calculate percentage like this. If 100% is the value, then I know what 10% is, then1%, so I do increments of both until I get to the correct value.

It may sound stupid,but it does help me get a % fast enough.

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[–] Akasazh@lemmy.world 9 points 4 months ago

The meme has nothing to to with ADHD, however your explication of how it happened does.

[–] stepan@lemmy.cafe 7 points 4 months ago (1 children)

I don't think I have ADHD but I do it exactly this way.

[–] Linnce@lemmy.world 6 points 4 months ago

I definitely don't have ADHD and I do it exactly this way

[–] ShortFuse@lemmy.world 6 points 4 months ago (1 children)
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[–] bjoern_tantau@swg-empire.de 6 points 4 months ago

I always tell my children that Maths is finding the best way to cheat at a problem. Don't solve the hard problem. Solve the easy one that's kind of like the hard problem and then find the difference.

And judging by the school material that's how they're supposed to do it. But either the teachers aren't explaining it that way or the kids aren't listening.

[–] IzzyScissor@lemmy.world 6 points 4 months ago

Wait, let me check the math...

6+6=12 and 7 is one more than 6, so 6+7=13

Cool. Checks out.

[–] Classy@sh.itjust.works 6 points 4 months ago (5 children)

My brain actually computes it first as 7 + 5 = 12 + 1 = 13.

I add 5s together a lot at my work (14, 19, 24... 63, 68, 73....) hard to explain why, but my brain jumps to 5s very easily for addition because of it.

[–] Binette@lemmy.ml 4 points 4 months ago

Same! I don't have ADHD, but I do 7 + 3 = 10, then 10 + 3 = 13

For some reason, 7 and 6 aren't addable to me.

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[–] Spitzspot@lemmings.world 5 points 4 months ago

6-3=3, 7+3=10, 10+3=13

[–] Gullible@sh.itjust.works 5 points 4 months ago

Prostrate yourselves, defective prole masses. I’ve memorized my +/- tables all the way up to 8.

[–] WolfLink@sh.itjust.works 5 points 4 months ago (2 children)

This is a good approach, but for this example I break it up as:

7+6=7+3+3=10+3=13

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[–] AncientFutureNow@lemmy.world 5 points 4 months ago

get to 10, add what's left.

[–] AgentGrimstone@lemmy.world 5 points 4 months ago

How I calculate percentages and settle for close enough.

[–] JimSamtanko@lemm.ee 4 points 4 months ago

Holy shit balls I feel seen!

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