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WE BEAT THE NEWS MEGA
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a family friend visited and deadnamed me even though i quite literally shoved my tits in his face 
he wasnt trying to hurt me though, he is just a remarkably slow on the uptake. 
and i do mean slow. he seemed to take the news well enough after he finally got it
I hope I am not spamming π
NSFW trauma generally
Anyone has sexual trauma from porn? Aside from that I went on sites such as Omeagle and almost got groomed, or did for a short while, as a teenager. Been repressing since and working throuhg it with therapy.
OKAY NERDS 
Who has some good GL webtoons? Can be manhua, manwha, donghua... american comic stuff, weeb comics, anything works but I need good quality comix about girls kissing.
EDIT: I ended up compiling a list of slop I like.
list of finished series
I Love Amy by Unun - sad doggirl tomboy gets dragged around by a yandere stereotype. Pretty good.
After the Curtain Call by ASSAM - uh this one is ok I guess, been a while, some TV/actress slop.
Always Human by walkingnorth/arielnorth - transhumanist lesbians, it's sort of about disability as a subtheme. Good stuff.
Blooming Sequence by Lee Eul - more film/TV/actress slop, been ages but thought it was okay.
Getting to Know Grace by Seo Rim/Mokma - ohhhh this dreary gothic elizabethian maid/lady romance kinda slaps. Love the art.
Ghosts of Greywoods by LetINK - weirdly the sams as above, also very good. I like LetINK's second series more but it is unfinished.
It Would Be Great If You Didn't Exist by Carbonara - this tanks in the last third but the art is cute and the leads have such an excellent love/hate.
Mojito by Fute - I forget most of this but thought it was decent. Solid art, I liked both leads.
Soulmate by Ke Ran Bing/Wenzhi Lizi - one of my favs, the time travel and chronic illness shit, it just hits. Love it.
here is some shit that's unfinished but I like
Aerial Magic by walkingnorth - nooooo why ;_;
Hella Good by Chiipi - this never updates but I like it okay.
Love, Lila by YREZU - I want these two to kiss but it NEVER updates last I checked.
Re-Blooming by LetINK - NOOOOOO WHYYYYYYYYY LETINK HOW COULD YOU DO THIS TO ME REEEEEEEEEEE 
MY FUCKING BELOVED WHYYYYYY
What Are The Chances by Chantsky - haha look it's an age gap, sure hope that's not a trend wow, that wouldn't be cute. Chantsky is in college or something so it never updates.
How Do We Relationship by Tamifull - I have been meaning to reread this, the one yuri manga I have liked.
sadposting
Feeling bad leaving not supporting a trans communist friend whoβs going through a rough time at the moment because I donβt have any spoons. Feel really useless, ugh. 
Idiot question but how do you nerds read pronoun priority here? I always assume the first one is the primary, though I sometimes swap back and forth between them. I have long discussed bear website goings-on with my wife enough that this is worth considering tbh.
When I took this job I didn't think I'd be doing so much random weird IT, TV remotes? ELPASS on the doors on when it shouldn't be? SSL not letting people log in to the hospital network?
doing a closet cleanout rn and I think there are just some colors out there that I simply do not understand. What is a person supposed to do with light gray? So much clothing comes in light gray and does it actually flatter anybody? if you're a light gray clothing enjoyer I fear and respect you.
Hunting for good vegan croissants. Not easy! I want the shit you can dunk in chocolate or coffee, not the fucking things that are half alcohol and taste and feel like bread rolls. I will make them myself if I have to! Fucking stop me! 
I had some valerian root tea and an edible. I'm hoping it kicks in soon as I wanna go to bed early tonight. And by early I mean by 1:30ish instead of like 3 or later like I've been doing the last few nights
So dreams, they're kinda kooky. Mine are usually full of like weird senseless gore or uh computers ig. How long did it take for your dream self (if you dream as yourself ever) to start matching your irl self?
This is kind of a self perception or conceptualisation thing I guess, I think my dreams better reflected my image the more I replaced pronouns and titles for myself internally. I never really dreamt of myself as a boy, instead I was a weird sort of amorphous blob, like the Reincarnated As A Slime protagonist or something. It took several years for the me in my dreams to match the me_irl, which is great because now my brain thinks I should have weird sex shit or just be topless in dreams half the time 
I have no idea if anyone else has experiences like this, maybe most people don't dream in first person or just always dreamed as their actual gender. Me I never had dreams about being A Girl, Idk :>
I'd say I more just see myself as like a haze, not clearly in focus. I've always dreamed in first person though.
weird sex shit
I did dream about having bottom surgery last night, that was weird.
Whining about work
I'm so tired of burning myself out at work for a salary that's about 15% shy of breaking even.
So I'm hunting for a new job, which is its own sort of nightmare. The only companies that are hiring full-remote SREs or technical analysts at a pay rate I can live with are either banks or businesses that would require me to get a government security clearance, neither of which I want to do.
laser session 8 done. should really stop booking them on days when the weather's good and i want to be outside
Apparently my prolactin has more than doubled since the last bloodtest. Probably nothing to be concerned about, since I did have a cold when taking this most recent blood test, and I've also read that it's normal to have high prolactin when taking cypro
I hate people who go on the stuff I do and dont give a shit on what I have to say! I get good feedback by almost everybody, but today they all seemed to not give a fuck and not even turn around when I started talking. I hate tourists (I work in tourism)