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WE BEAT THE NEWS MEGA
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people constantly go on about the eroticism of food, but when i ask to be referred to as "chef" and have my commands acknowledged with "oui, chef" suddenly i'm the weird one
I've lost track of how many things I've delayed
I'm getting a lot of my clothes back from my cousin's place and I can't wait 
>wife finishes Nevada
>says she liked it and wanted more
MY POWERS ARE INCREASING
My partner makes me feel all fuzzy 
CW: suicide
Up until a couple of days ago I would've told you I was a cis dude. I kinda new something was up but didn't know much about enby identities and never gave it much thought.
Read through the gender dysphoria bible. Holy shit, worlds most dangerous document. Less than 48 hours later I think I might be grill.
On one hand I can't help but keep noticing things I don't like about myself but I feel better for it. Like I've been miserable with everything in my life and I couldn't put my finger on it until now.
One of my closest family members killed themselves a couple of years ago. The world hasn't felt this vibrant since I lost them.
I think I figured out a way to help me feel whole. But I'm still trying to wrap my head around it.
Small step but I had to get a new USB-C DAC to replace my busted ass BTR5. Got one in this girly teal/green color that isn't super obvious, and shouldn't raise cis eyebrows.
First feminine presenting thing I've ever bought on purpose and it feels so fucking good.
slightly nsfw boob talk
My boobs are sensitive enough to the point that it slightly hurts laying on my stomach so that's cool.
Main "problem" is now I need to get actual bras because the bralettes I have are too little to stop the friction on my nipples
check the stupid 4chan femcel transfem dating app again out of boredom
like 8 people messaged me
half of them are brainwormed
the ones that aren't are super sexual and I know that won't mesh well with me
I should probably just try a real app at this point
Why do I have to deal with such inconveniences as "sleep" and "food". Why can't I just do DIY projects 24/7.
I've been doing some research on top surgery recently, and I'm a little bit worried because my insurance says that it might deny (laundry list of cpt codes that align with gender affirming surgeries) as "cosmetic procedures". Do I have to get a medical diagnosis of some sort? This shit is so confusing, my ADHD is not having a good time.
these christian coming of age parties are fucking dead 
barely know anyone here and dont feel like starting convos with strangers, atleast my goth getup is hella cool 
The veins in her legs >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
Idk this is just one of those things I feel about, it's sorta like how I feel about stretch marks tbh.
Dysphoria and shitty flatmates
spoiler
This evening is a queer meet-up, but I am feeling dysphoric, don't know if I'll go. I know self isolation is bad, maybe I'll feel different after the shower and a second shave.
Also I am so happy I'll leave my flatmate behind in a week, she yesterday implied that my lack of attachment to this shitty flat is, cause of my "male socialisation", or what she actually said: cause I am "mannish". She had an almost nervous breakdown over an electric kettle once, in comparison to that, I am the buddah.
My exes mom used to say "chin up, tits out" when my ex was feeling down. Now I say it to myself lol
Lounging at home in an old t-shirt, my tits are big enough now that I absolutely look like a girl who stole her bf's shirt. Wild how my new figure makes me like this shirt more even though it hasn"t changed at all.
I'm gonna 
and start another training arc
I'm gonna come back with so much self awareness and self acceptance... Or I'm not coming back at all!
Good luck making the number go up, everyone
I have spent the entire day arguing with liberals on reddit, I regret nothing because I dunked hard on them
posting from the PP lobby. drumroll to see what the bloodtest results are like
I got squishy arms now, that's pretty neat. But there's been no fat restribution in the rest of my body yet. Maybe I need to lose weight 
yes im procrastinating but im spending my time complimenting trans communists so uh its fine
Went to the country's biggest pride on sunday. Commercialized as fuck, literally the definition of corporate pride, but walking through a major city and seeing queer people completely take over the scenery felt good, ngl. Also met up with a really sweet friend there and met a ton of nice people she's friends with. ofc i was a lil dum dum and forgot to pack sunscreen and now i have (fortunately very light) sunburn ... in the shape of my top's boob window. Dang.
got high last night and started fantasizing about what it would have been like to have been a neurotypical cis lesbian girl back in high school and how that seemed like a lost world i can never have had but should of, yet i remember following it later with a strong feeling of trans pride in an inexplicable way to where I get to instead have the lived experience of a trans woman, which is rewarding and prideworthy in its own right
now i don't know what to think other than "ugh i got to leave for work soon"
dysphoria
god i'm in such an awful place with my transition right now
i don't look like a woman, but at the same time i don't really look like a man either, i'm stuck in a in-between purgatory that i can't get out of
i'm tired of looking like this, honestly i'd take just looking like a man over this. i just want to blend into the background instead of everyone staring at me with disgust
For anyone following from my little meltdown over the weekend. My girlfriend and I have worked things out and communicated about everything. We really do love each other and I think once the t-blockers kick in we will both be a lot happier in the relationship.
hrt questions
Once I start on t-blockers how soon will it be until I start having some effects from it? Like spontaneous erections are very annoying to me. I'd love to see less aggression towards myself and my loved ones, etc.
Will it be pretty immediate? I know the secondary sex characteristics from the estrogen will take a long time. But I would really just like to not be under the influence of testosterone all the time. And the faster that happens I think the happier I will be and my partner will be.
Appointment is for Friday!
Goofnight trans mega, gonna be a better tomorrow(or today timezone dependent) 
Love seeing all the new comrades joining the mega. Welcome! 
Since I've started hrt I have become the eepy trans girl meme. Takes me an extra to get out of bed in the morning now
Maybe Iβm just a Buddhist, but I realized I donβt really identify with my physical body. Itβs not that I want to express some inherent gender, I just like to see a pretty face when I look in the mirror. Funnily, Iβm still in the societal brainworm of gendering people and appearance and action, but when I look at myself in the mirror I see no gender.
