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my main problem is I compare life now to in the US in the 50's through 90's instead of the dark ages.

I would imagine that those starving bricklayers in Africa know the value of what they have, are grateful to have it, and would gladly share it with anybody they felt needed it more than them. Their life is probably difficult at times — whose isn’t? — but they have family, friends, and community who look out for them, because in the end they know they have nothing without each other.

Alienation from labor and isolation from your community cannot be solved through pleasure and consumption

Productivity has risen as well. Anon likely has a mind-nunbing job that produces more economically in a year than a village or two of those ancestors would have.

Keynes famously predicted in 1930 that his grandchildren would only need a 15 hour workweek as technology would allow people to work less. Many others predicted similar throughout the 1900's. When you look at a household perspective, Keynes was writing in a time when huge populations of women were expected not to work already.

What we see now is that it is incredibly rare for multi-adult households to have singular incomes. For the household, the 40 hour workweek might have actually grown to 80. Or more, as individuals engage in gig work or get 2nd or 3rd jobs. Plus forced overtime is becoming an issue, and of course wage theft.

Wages have stagnated while productivity has increased. Pensions (and unions) are gone (at least in the US). Inequality is constantly increasing - the rich use their power to get richer while the poor are stuck getting poorer.

Anon mentions his freedoms, but neglects to mention he probably spends 50 or more hours a week either working, on break from work, getting ready, commuting. He cannot criticize his employer publicly. An arrest and a night or two in jail could throw him into poverty. Unless, of course, he is rich enough that he doesn't need to work, in which case simply tossing his name around with he police can often get him out of any trouble.

He mentions healthcare - US life expectancy not, and I do not believe has ever been, 90 years. Maybe for ultra-wealtjy women? Currently the average is 76 years for the whole country. But even then, women live longer than men, and the top-1% of income earners live almost 15 years longer than the bottom-1%. . So if anon is a low-income male, his life expectancy may be in his mid-60's. Which is comparable to the average life expectancy of the late 1700's- early 1900's in Europe.

He has a lot of fancy toys at his disposal, but his life is still being consumed by the wealthy in power.

Look up Maslow's Hierarchy.

Anon is enjoying every creature comfort the planet has to offer, but they are still missing the entire top half of this pyramid. And you need that to be happy.

Edit: to anyone returning to this thread.

It's easy to see how the worst mechanisms in our society cut into this model. Not having enough money for basic needs, being too isolated, or not having enough time to yourself, are all issues that track through the very shape of our society and employment issues in general. I don't have answers for everyone. But it sure is easy to spot the problems.

What I do know is that it's important to keep trying to fight for your best life and don't settle for long if your needs aren't being met. Also, invest in people power even if you have money. After all, you can't buy friendships, it takes time to build them, you actually need other people to be completely happy, and it's probably the best safety net you can get.

Royalty had agency and power. Anon is just doing the movements, but can't sculpt the future.

Hunter gathers (which human are from an evolutionary perspective) worked 4 hours a day and would have had a lot of exercise.

They were around similar, closely related people, with a united culture and strong community.

Their form of stress would have been "oh fuck a bear. Let's get away". "Wow remember when we spend 10 minutes this week stressed about a bear"

Humans work a shit load, including getting ready for work. Don't have time to sleep enough. Human society is largely devoid of anything that it should be, not enough of the stuff that mattered and too much of everything else. Low level stress is constant.

Can relate. On our coast we have some of the most laid back village people in the world, yet here in the city with all our amenities we get upset with dumb things like people making noise in the tennis court across from our condo. Priorities are shot.

Because you spend most of your life working, you have meaningless sex without forming emotional connections or freinds, even if you did you spend too much time at work to enjoy their company, then what little free time you actually get, you squander it doomscolling or engaging with the crab-brains on 4chan, or playing games that make you angry and in the process constantly consume media to desperately try and eek out some good chemicals from you completely fried neurons and never give them a break.

Well, for a start, 90% of young men can't relate to the first one. That is a major and growing problem

It's fairly easy to see the problem here: The dude has way too many obligations.

Most people would be happy just to go to a beach and poke the sand with a stick. The privileges of "upper middle class" are the real schackels preventing people from going to the beach.

All the luxuries of the world, but vanishingly little time to indulge in them.

The lack of purpose my dude

Who told u kings from the past, and bricklayers in africa are not depressed ?

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hedonic_treadmill

Also, from an existentialist point of view, we're inundated by so many choices that almost nothing could satisfy us. We're always seeking more. Here is a quote from Soren Kierkegaard:

Marry, and you will regret it; don’t marry, you will also regret it; marry or don’t marry, you will regret it either way. Laugh at the world’s foolishness, you will regret it; weep over it, you will regret that too; laugh at the world’s foolishness or weep over it, you will regret both. Believe a woman, you will regret it; believe her not, you will also regret it… Hang yourself, you will regret it; do not hang yourself, and you will regret that too; hang yourself or don’t hang yourself, you’ll regret it either way; whether you hang yourself or do not hang yourself, you will regret both. This, gentlemen, is the essence of all philosophy.

"I have all these materialist things and still not happy"

You need some sort of goal in life, and anon doesn't sound like he has one. Most any positive goal will do, just get one

You've unlocked the American Dream!

Alienation moment

First thing to do: Do not go on social media. Second thing to to: Consume less news.

Do not thank me later as it would require you to browse social media.

Also, do whatever if you feel fine.

I don't believe the first claim, but other than that he has a point.

diet of kings, but we are all alone now

Life is nothing without struggle

hedonism does not lead to life satisfaction?? do people know this??!!

You have nothing to distract yourself