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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 10 points 5 months ago (17 children)

dietingIt’s really hard to judge if I should have lunch some days or not.

My mom either cooks dinners that are like a small chicken breast and some calorie-light vegetables and that’s it, or she’ll cook some fancy Italian thing that is like a lot.

So I’ll have nights like tonight where I go to the store later to get something more to eat, or the inverse where I only eat half/two-thirds of dinner, so I can stay at my 1000 a day budget.

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[–] Mousy@hexbear.net 10 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (3 children)

Never really liked visual novels but milk outside a bag of milk looks interesting

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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 10 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

It's striking to me that Fallow by Ada Rook is so contemplative, quiet, calm. I mean the threat of eldritch unknowable terror still looms over all the dried, rotten wood, sunbleached dirt and desolate sad girls, but most of the soundtrack is mournful strings, violin over simple acoustic guitar chords. This from the UGLY DEATH NO REDEMPTION ANGEL CURSE I LOVE YOU lady, she has such range wow niko-wonderous

Fallow is filled with domestic little details and a sense of dejection, resignment at the end of this place and everyone. It's beautiful, I adore it.

The past is breathing again. It's not safe here any longer.

This game fucks so harrrrrrd fjgjgkdkjdfjjd, also the framing of many screens features tiny lil monochrome green sadgirl standing at the base of collossal steel husks cast in maroon and mauve, real gender vibe tbh.

[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 10 points 4 months ago (5 children)

Gettin' emotional thinking about how much I love my foster kittens and getting worried about anything bad ever happening to them or having to adopt them out to people eventually

kitty-birthday-sad

One of them that used to be skittish let me rub his tummy and scritch his widdle head and pick him up and hold him and he purred and I may or may not have teared up a little

kitty-cri-texas

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 10 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

this is all I post about any more I guess, coming out (mentions of transphobia)Brought up my trans cousin. Parents deadnamed her. I don't have the strength to come out and start transitioning. This sucks. My parents have been very good, but I don't think they'll be as good on this issue. Sucks. Honestly even if I did come out I'd probably be living basically in the closet anyway, because I don't think they'd want my younger sibling knowing. And tbf I don't want to deal with that either. Probably wouldn't name or gender me correctly anyway, even if it was unintentional. All I wanted from them was hrt anyway, so I think I'm just going to diy it and hopefully move out. Need to do a few things but I think diy will be possible soonish.

I'm trying not to feel bad about not telling them. They have been very supportive of me my whole life. I'm just not ready to come out yet.

Listening to Ada Rook's night in a secret world, its quite nice.

[–] QueerCommie@hexbear.net 10 points 4 months ago

Just shaved my legs for the first time in a little while. New razor. Realized I don’t mind having somewhat hairy legs, I just wish it was thinner and less dark (yes I know how that happens).

[–] khizuo@hexbear.net 10 points 4 months ago (1 children)

fashionposting #3 (stenciling patches)While my sewing machine is broken I've been making patches again. By "making patches" I mean stenciling designs onto rectangles of black fabric that I cut out from a bag of black dinner napkins that I got for $5 last year. Honestly, making patches is kind of a pain because cutting out the stencils, ironing them on, and then applying multiple layers of screenprinting ink to get a nice opaque design is a lot of work. But I love the results so I keep doing it anyways. Last time I was really into making patches was a few months ago and I'm always terrified of running out of them for clothing modifications (weird, because you know I made the patches to be used and now I'm scared of using them?) so now I'm making another giant batch, new stencils new designs.

With this batch I actually haven't gotten a lot of band logos, it's a lot of... communist stuff? Which I think is fun. I've got a stencil that literally says "Marxist-Leninist" in Chinese. This kind of DIY punk stuff is usually heavily linked to anarchism, and while I support my anarchist comrades I think it would be a bit disingenuous for me as an ML to put a big A for anarchy symbol on my clothing. I once read a reddit comment on a punk subreddit (I know, I know) that was like "we don't like tankie punks" or something like that and now my goal with my clothing is to spite that redditor I guess. I've even contemplated customizing a jacket and have it all be random communist slogans and imagery instead of band patches, we'll see if that ever happens.

With band logos on patches and clothing my most annoying trait is that sometimes I'll make a patch of a band I've barely listened to, just because I know that I will eventually get into them. I can usually tell pretty quickly if I'll like a band's music or not so I honestly do not feel bad at all doing this. Truly, I do not care at all about people who wear bands on their clothing that they don't listen to. As long as people are having fun who cares lol. Maybe eventually I'll make a patch of a band whose music I hate and put it on my clothes, just to be funny.

I have a lot of ideas for custom jackets in the future, and idk how in-detail I can get with them before they count as doxxing because I know that I'll probably be the only person who manifests some of these ideas into reality. Anyways. Such is how things are when you're doing weird clothing DIYs.

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