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god i hate those titles
A party of blood and sex-change
A gender of teeth and lubricant
i hate microsoft if you didn't know cw: dysphoria
me: searching Microsoft Teams for a message.
Teams: includes "[deadname] (You) - message" in the results, despite my name being changed in the system and legally for 3 months.
yes, thank you microsoft for giving us pronoun flairs, that only me and like one enby in the company even use lol, but could you not deadname me? you are valued at 3.16 trillion USD and you can't amend (or can't be fucked amending) my name within a system you have almost complete control of. sometimes i see my deadname email flicker before being replaced with my new one and i can understand why they might have my old email but why are you storing my deadname???? is my legal name just a display name??
i'm soooo fucking glad microsoft successfully abused their market power to eradicate slack and make us use this steaming pile of bland corpo dogshit. i throw up a little everytime i hear that fucking teams ping, i reaaaally want to quit just because of our dependence on this repugnant company
i know this comes off a bit trivial, i'm privileged to have an office job. but it gives off the same vibe as my birth certificate having "previously known as [deadname]", both constant reminders that i'll never be just me but me who used to be someone else and that shit sucks
As janky as slack can be on occasion, and as much as Iโd prefer zero electron apps whatsoever, Iโm really glad my team still uses slack. Teams(new)(new)(final)(new) is so much worse. Down with MS.
E: salesforce too, of course. Just that their UX is slightly less openly terrible.
yeah if you couldn't tell, our dept decommissioned slack last year... it wasn't perfect but jfc 100% ms teams is hell
hard agree on salesforce, i think i just hate all corporate software. i dream of a world where workers can choose their own tools
Hell yeah hard agree, and also Iโm sorry for your loss
transition goals: to get to the point where i can have long hair again without someone immediately misgendering me
it's so funny, i have THREE different ocs who are all chinese trans guys with long hair. I have a thing going on here
eventually i WILL have seven
I snorted
I love that Khizuo is making rad characters and creative shit though
I'm working on a creative thing too and would love to get some feedback at some point too if any of you would like that
I just finished My Lesbian Experience with Loneliness after it's been sitting in my library for half a year
Aaaaaaah, I love queer people so much โค๏ธ
I love our fucked up weird little lives~
I want to huuuug you โจ
Oh it's this one. I enjoyed it. after I read it I wanted to see what others thought so I went online to look at what people were saying and its just comments and comments full of pity "oh my gosh that's terrible the poor girl" and stuff. I was so confused
sad, misgendering, deadnaming, family shit
call one relative I'm out to on the phone to catch up and vent because she was concerned and knows I've been struggling lately
deadnamed and misgendered like 6 times and talked over repeatedly
I don't know why I bothered tbh
She's "the good one" and the rest of the family would probably be worse if I ever bother to come out to them
I think the best idea is to just work on myself and my transition and maybe someday show up to something like nothing happened and act like they're weird for not recognizing me and then act really confused when they try calling me my deadname
At least I have cats
mental health, social isolation sad shit, avpd probably
I really gotta get my shit together mentally and get over my "what if it doesn't go well" woe is me bullshit and reach out to my old best friend who might be the (platonic?) love of my life or soulmate or something
I miss this person so fucking much and have for years now and at some point when shit got really bad for me when covid got serious here, I just completely shut down and isolated and retreated inward mentally and have just started tiptoeing back to being "myself" but I've thought of this friend pretty much constantly since then and I know reconnecting with them would be like, the single best thing I could do for myself but it's still so scary and daunting after all this time
I thought by now I'd finally be, like, me, fully, and could reconnect as a better version of the person they loved, but I feel more weird and fucked up and unhappy with myself now than I did when we were super close irl and part of what's been preventing me from reaching back out is that feeling of shame
I wish I could be better at the very least so they could feel better about me instead of being concerned or upset at what a mess I am
Idk sorry I'm really emotional tonight
Are there any good video games with cross play between the switch and PC? I'm trying to find stuff for me and my brother to play
I crave dog and catgirl literature so I think I might get back into reading unjust depths.
Winder if there is Unjust depths lesbian fanart....
really funny imo but genital mention, kinda dysphoria related
Lmao YouTube thinks I'm in the sales demographic for "yoni eggs"
Like sorry bud, I don't think I'm in the market for magic woo woo pussy rocks for several reasons but uh thanks for thinking I'm a woman, algorithm?
Trying to get used to drinking water again after having energy drinks being my primary mode of hydration during the winter holidays. Water kinda sucks