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Children of Time is a 2015 science fiction novel by Adrian Tchaikovsky.

In the distant future, humanity seeks to create new habitats for itself on distant planets, terraforming them and seeding them with life. Dr. Avrana Kern is heading one such project, orbiting the tentatively named "Kern's World", where the plan is to release monkeys le-monke infected with a nanovirus that will accelerate their evolution. Through an act of sabotage from an anti-technology group that has also destroyed much of Earth, the monkeys are never released, and the virus instead infects a species of spider, Portia labiata. The book follows the evolution of the spiders and their eventual civilisation, as well as a remnant of humanity that fled to Kern's World hoping to find paradise.


also children of ruin and children of memory, the sequels, are really good


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[โ€“] Eco@hexbear.net 16 points 6 days ago (5 children)

my new adult romantic fantasy, noun of noun and noun, comes out today

[โ€“] Eco@hexbear.net 10 points 6 days ago

god i hate those titles

[โ€“] Beetle@hexbear.net 7 points 6 days ago

A party of blood and sex-change

[โ€“] Beetle@hexbear.net 7 points 6 days ago

A gender of teeth and lubricant

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[โ€“] bolshevikLovelace@hexbear.net 15 points 6 days ago (1 children)

i hate microsoft if you didn't know cw: dysphoriame: searching Microsoft Teams for a message.
Teams: includes "[deadname] (You) - message" in the results, despite my name being changed in the system and legally for 3 months.

yes, thank you microsoft for giving us pronoun flairs, that only me and like one enby in the company even use lol, but could you not deadname me? you are valued at 3.16 trillion USD and you can't amend (or can't be fucked amending) my name within a system you have almost complete control of. sometimes i see my deadname email flicker before being replaced with my new one and i can understand why they might have my old email but why are you storing my deadname???? is my legal name just a display name?? lea-dysphoric

i'm soooo fucking glad microsoft successfully abused their market power to eradicate slack and make us use this steaming pile of bland corpo dogshit. i throw up a little everytime i hear that fucking teams ping, i reaaaally want to quit just because of our dependence on this repugnant company

i know this comes off a bit trivial, i'm privileged to have an office job. but it gives off the same vibe as my birth certificate having "previously known as [deadname]", both constant reminders that i'll never be just me but me who used to be someone else and that shit sucks

[โ€“] shallot@hexbear.net 8 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (1 children)

As janky as slack can be on occasion, and as much as Iโ€™d prefer zero electron apps whatsoever, Iโ€™m really glad my team still uses slack. Teams(new)(new)(final)(new) is so much worse. Down with MS.

E: salesforce too, of course. Just that their UX is slightly less openly terrible.

[โ€“] bolshevikLovelace@hexbear.net 5 points 5 days ago (1 children)

yeah if you couldn't tell, our dept decommissioned slack last year... it wasn't perfect but jfc 100% ms teams is hell

hard agree on salesforce, i think i just hate all corporate software. i dream of a world where workers can choose their own tools lea-resigned

[โ€“] shallot@hexbear.net 5 points 5 days ago

Hell yeah hard agree, and also Iโ€™m sorry for your loss

[โ€“] khizuo@hexbear.net 18 points 6 days ago (1 children)

transition goals: to get to the point where i can have long hair again without someone immediately misgendering me

[โ€“] khizuo@hexbear.net 13 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (1 children)

it's so funny, i have THREE different ocs who are all chinese trans guys with long hair. I have a thing going on here

[โ€“] Thallo@hexbear.net 16 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (2 children)
[โ€“] khizuo@hexbear.net 11 points 6 days ago

eventually i WILL have seven

[โ€“] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 12 points 6 days ago (2 children)

I snorted

I love that Khizuo is making rad characters and creative shit thoughtrans-heart

I'm working on a creative thing too and would love to get some feedback at some point too if any of you would like that

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[โ€“] Thallo@hexbear.net 14 points 6 days ago (2 children)

I just finished My Lesbian Experience with Loneliness after it's been sitting in my library for half a year

Aaaaaaah, I love queer people so much โค๏ธ

I love our fucked up weird little lives~

I want to huuuug you โœจ

[โ€“] SamotsvetyVIA@hexbear.net 7 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Oh it's this one. I enjoyed it. after I read it I wanted to see what others thought so I went online to look at what people were saying and its just comments and comments full of pity "oh my gosh that's terrible the poor girl" and stuff. I was so confused

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[โ€“] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 7 points 6 days ago (1 children)

oh hey it's the book that cracked my egg

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[โ€“] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 15 points 6 days ago

sad, misgendering, deadnaming, family shit

call one relative I'm out to on the phone to catch up and vent because she was concerned and knows I've been struggling lately

deadnamed and misgendered like 6 times and talked over repeatedly

I don't know why I bothered tbh

She's "the good one" and the rest of the family would probably be worse if I ever bother to come out to them

I think the best idea is to just work on myself and my transition and maybe someday show up to something like nothing happened and act like they're weird for not recognizing me and then act really confused when they try calling me my deadname

At least I have cats

[โ€“] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 14 points 6 days ago (1 children)

mental health, social isolation sad shit, avpd probablyI really gotta get my shit together mentally and get over my "what if it doesn't go well" woe is me bullshit and reach out to my old best friend who might be the (platonic?) love of my life or soulmate or something

I miss this person so fucking much and have for years now and at some point when shit got really bad for me when covid got serious here, I just completely shut down and isolated and retreated inward mentally and have just started tiptoeing back to being "myself" but I've thought of this friend pretty much constantly since then and I know reconnecting with them would be like, the single best thing I could do for myself but it's still so scary and daunting after all this time

I thought by now I'd finally be, like, me, fully, and could reconnect as a better version of the person they loved, but I feel more weird and fucked up and unhappy with myself now than I did when we were super close irl and part of what's been preventing me from reaching back out is that feeling of shame

I wish I could be better at the very least so they could feel better about me instead of being concerned or upset at what a mess I am

Idk sorry I'm really emotional tonight

catgirl-cry catgirl-flop

[โ€“] shallot@hexbear.net 7 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)
[โ€“] yewler@hexbear.net 9 points 6 days ago (2 children)

Are there any good video games with cross play between the switch and PC? I'm trying to find stuff for me and my brother to play

[โ€“] Eco@hexbear.net 7 points 5 days ago (1 children)
[โ€“] yewler@hexbear.net 5 points 5 days ago (1 children)
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[โ€“] Josephine_Spiro@hexbear.net 13 points 6 days ago

I crave dog and catgirl literature so I think I might get back into reading unjust depths.

Winder if there is Unjust depths lesbian fanart....

[โ€“] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 13 points 6 days ago

really funny imo but genital mention, kinda dysphoria related

Lmao YouTube thinks I'm in the sales demographic for "yoni eggs" data-laughing

Like sorry bud, I don't think I'm in the market for magic woo woo pussy rocks for several reasons but uh thanks for thinking I'm a woman, algorithm?

[โ€“] Tommasi@hexbear.net 13 points 6 days ago (4 children)

Trying to get used to drinking water again after having energy drinks being my primary mode of hydration during the winter holidays. Water kinda sucks doggirl-tears

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[โ€“] nemmybun@hexbear.net 12 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Massive headache today and I've still got a handful of chores to run

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