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Children of Time is a 2015 science fiction novel by Adrian Tchaikovsky.

In the distant future, humanity seeks to create new habitats for itself on distant planets, terraforming them and seeding them with life. Dr. Avrana Kern is heading one such project, orbiting the tentatively named "Kern's World", where the plan is to release monkeys le-monke infected with a nanovirus that will accelerate their evolution. Through an act of sabotage from an anti-technology group that has also destroyed much of Earth, the monkeys are never released, and the virus instead infects a species of spider, Portia labiata. The book follows the evolution of the spiders and their eventual civilisation, as well as a remnant of humanity that fled to Kern's World hoping to find paradise.


also children of ruin and children of memory, the sequels, are really good


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[–] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 10 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

hi, does anyone wanna make the mega in the upcoming weeks? if so, reply to this post and i'll add you to the list!

the list as it stands:

oscardejarjayes* (1/13 - 1/19)
SwitchyandWitchy* (1/20 - 1/26)
SILLY BEAN@lemmygrad.ml* (1/27 - 2/2)
AshenWolf* (2/3 - 2/9)
GayTuckerCarlson* (2/10 - 2/16)

EstraDoll (3/2 - 3/8)

​ * after name denotes someone who has posted before and will be skipped by first-time posters

[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 9 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Do you think people can tell I’m a bottom when I leave the house? doggirl-sweat

[–] Eco@hexbear.net 11 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

they can tell when you don't, too

[–] SadArtemis@hexbear.net 9 points 23 hours ago* (last edited 23 hours ago)

...mood again possum-mama

I'm only coming to terms with it (rather than being "totally awesome powerful vers who totes doesn't fold immediately and is independent and capable of anything or uh something like that arguably") very recently myself but it seems like it was always obvious. Which in hindsight; fair.

I asked my partner of 6 years if I was more subby or dommy or vers and they also instantly replied "1000% subby, and I'm not sorry to say it."

~~Here I thought I came off as powerful and stuff in personality if not anything else whatsoever at the moment~~ 🫣

[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 4 points 23 hours ago (1 children)
[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 4 points 23 hours ago (1 children)
[–] CDommunist@hexbear.net 11 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Things are finally going in the right direction comfy

my real estate deadnamed me in their inspection notice mao-aggro-shining

[–] SadArtemis@hexbear.net 5 points 23 hours ago

I probably need sleep meds to sleep properly, maybe. And I guess hypothetically also being told to sleep like as if I'm not a grown ass 28 y.o. woman uh... well no one ever accused me of being functional.

Waking up in the middle of the night and it's hard to sleep because (hungy), but then the resulting headache will naturally make me want to stay in bed rather than make food later (happened yesterday also didn't make food since would have to wash dishes and idk)... Why is life like this? I'll uh eat properly today and do life stuff though yeah, today's the day doggirl-thumbsup

[–] Kuori@hexbear.net 3 points 21 hours ago

the old mega is dying. the new mega struggles to be pinned.

now is the time of posters.

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 12 points 1 day ago

massive volcel violation postingthought #1: "holy shit just 8 months HRT has made my ass look incredible" hyperflush

thought #2: "holy shit just imagine how fucking stunning it will look after about 2 years HRT" panting

[–] Eco@hexbear.net 4 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

this food safety course i'm doing is so fucking tedious

[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 3 points 22 hours ago

That the one where you put a condom on your produce right, sad to think how many varieties of banana we lost due improper protection πŸ˜”

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 12 points 1 day ago (1 children)

in an act of unimaginable malice from the gods to make a human existence a cruel joke, they made the world's horniest trans woman with a curse to be perpetually single

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 10 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Change up your dating strategy. Instead of talking about mahjong, try telling everyone how horny you are.

It could work power-genius

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 10 points 1 day ago (1 children)

talking about mahjong would work better if i wasn't in a bar so loud nobody could hear eachother

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 10 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Idk it seems like just yelling HORNY HORNY HORNY would be easier to communicate in a loud setting

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 10 points 1 day ago

lewd hand gestures work regardless of room volume...

[–] KatGirl@hexbear.net 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

How are you all using these emojis? Do you have just have like a folder of them you share or something? I don't see an emoji icon in my app.

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 6 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

I'm not sure if any apps work with emojis, but using :emoji-name: works. like :ohnoes: :cat-trans: etc will render on the website and are semi easy to remember.

[–] KatGirl@hexbear.net 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Using the colons doesn't render here on the app, is using the website as a web app any good?

[–] Eco@hexbear.net 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

the site's mobile version is pretty usable yeah. it's what i use when i'm not at my pc

[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 5 points 1 day ago

I didn’t even know there was an app

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 13 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (4 children)

What I am doing now is not working. I'm going to try and get on diy. I still don't think I can be independent before changes are noticeable but another year without E (or however much time) isn't going to change that. May as well try it and see if it helps.

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spoiler thoughts of suicide I've been feeling hopeless and like I'm going to have to kill myself anyway. It doesn't really matter if I start a timer on moving/coming out. Worst comes to worst I'll have to come out and they'll be disappointed in me or whatever. I can't get out of this by myself so maybe E will help. If not shrug-outta-hecks there really are not that many more options. At least I can die knowing what E feels like. If these mythical mental changes are real or hype. :::

[–] Beetle@hexbear.net 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Just doing scary things because I felt like I had nothing to lose has worked out for me so far. I hope if works out for you too πŸ«‚

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 2 points 22 hours ago

Thank you :meow-hug: I'm glad it worked for you.

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 6 points 1 day ago

My thoughts are with you. That's very brave

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[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 7 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Been looking at my itchio bundles and found some coding game, it's a small sample of a larger game but think I'm getting the basics of coding down maybe croc-pog

[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 3 points 1 day ago

Codemancer ch 1, it was in a Palestine bundle

[–] Mousy@hexbear.net 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 4 points 1 day ago

programming-communism me when I figure this shit out

[–] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 6 points 1 day ago
[–] NotLuigi@hexbear.net 12 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I don’t feel like my face has changed since I started e about 6 months ago. Simultaneously, I’m finally seeing a version of my face in the mirror that I like consistently. Not sure what to make of that.

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I think it's normal.

Sometimes I think I'm really pretty. Other times I think I'm hideous. It really depends more on your mood, so you're probably in a better headspace

[–] NotLuigi@hexbear.net 4 points 1 day ago

I am definitely in a better headspace

Love is Blind Germany: "Ha ha, we are German, we have fallen in love in silence und I did not see my fiancee before proposing"

[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 6 points 1 day ago

dysphoriaWent to go out in the parking lot at the gym for a vape break, ran into a New Year's newbie young(er) woman trying to get in to ask about joining. (There's no staff on weekends)

She asked about the staff hours. Without thinking about it because I was checking for all my pockets before I left, I ask her if she can wait and I'll give her a pic of the staff schedule hours and then I can text it to her. Didn't even think about how "oh you're not supposed to go inside as a not-member." I'll give you a pic of the staff hours and then it's all good.

She read me as a guy. (shut up, she definitely did.)

Without thinking of that and how I offered to take the pic for her, realized she probably thought I'm trying to get her number and hit on her

Feel really sad and gross once I realized that

Like jfc honey, I'm so sorry, I (kinda) like women too but you had no clue and I swear I wasn't a creep

Also if I had referred you for a membership that'd be like forty bucks for me lmao

[–] 0x2640@hexbear.net 12 points 1 day ago

we lost our best friend today and… we arent sure if we made the right choice or not by leaving them

not sure how we are going to recover from this

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 10 points 1 day ago

(CW: joking misogyny) TTRPG adventures:I've been grappled and have too little strength to break free on my own, so I shout out to the party wizard to cast Twitch, a spell that causes any target to drop whatever item they're holding

Me: "Can you target the bird man grappling me so I can break free?"

Wizard: "Sorry, Twitch only works to drop objects"

Me: (playing a character who is a trans woman) "fucking transphobic magic doesn't recognize me as a woman"

scented candles, cute clothes, and decorations are not "treats". anything marketed to men is though. if you disagree with this you're misogynistic. unironically

[–] yewler@hexbear.net 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I love how 95% of the time I tell someone I like math they hit me with the EWWWWWWWWWWWWW I've always hated math

[–] Beetle@hexbear.net 6 points 1 day ago

Honestly I kind of get it when people say that because I had my own subjects in high school where I was made to feel so dumb by my teachers that I got sick in the morning if I had classes on that subject that day. It still makes me sad when that’s all someone can say though.

[–] sictransitgloria@hexbear.net 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)

being poly is probably not worth it, stay tuned though

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[–] yewler@hexbear.net 10 points 1 day ago

My unusual word choice strikes again. I walked into the back kitchen of the queer community center and said "I don't think I've ever been this deep before" and now deep has become the word of the day 😭

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