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Hi! I've been extremely tired this week and nearly forgot that I was hosting one so I'm writing this last minute! I couldn't think of anything so I'm going to write about one of my hamsters who is not Biggs; Meredith

Meredith was another hamster of mine from a few years ago during the early days of COVID, and she was the absolute sweetest little creature I had ever met. Very friendly, very gentle. She loved exploring anywhere I put her into and never bit me ~~okay she did once ever~~. She was an absolute sweetheart and bundle of love and was with me during some of the rougher parts of my life

She unfortunately died very suddenly out of the blue one day at a terribly young age showing no symptoms of anything wrong with her prior, which breaks my heart to this very day

I never had her as long as any other hamster of mine but I don't think I had any other hamster touch my heart in quite the same way. I miss you, girl


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[โ€“] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 11 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 children)

I made the mistake of re-visiting the Hank Green HRT stuff from last year (where he basically gave a bunch of harmful misinformation which he never corrected). I'm reading reddit comments and getting so angry at redditors from a year ago.

[โ€“] Boynomoder@hexbear.net 10 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

Crazy they just didnโ€™t think to consult a transfem about it at all.

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[โ€“] Carcharodonna@hexbear.net 11 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Got a haircut recently and this time it actually turned out really well. Last time I got my hair butchered and was really upset about it.

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[โ€“] Wmill@hexbear.net 10 points 3 weeks ago (5 children)

Sure sex is probably cool but you know what's better, getting a full nights sleep with minimal piss/water breaks doggirl-sleep

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[โ€“] Eco@hexbear.net 10 points 4 weeks ago

hi meredith mao-wave

what a cutie, i'm sorry you lost her so early.

[โ€“] AshenWolf@hexbear.net 10 points 4 weeks ago

Gosh there are multiple big things going on this summer now (and am in the process of planning), and it's just really exciting! Not to mention I'll be starting progesterone in a few weeks, and the weather's been getting warmer, which can be nice, but can also means the sun is baking me sometimes. It really feels like summer is already here... but it's not doggirl-sweat

The semester isn't over, I still have work to do, and I may have forgotten to take my meds today and am struggling to focus. Whoops! I should probably make sure I get my work done so that I can do the things I want to do.

[โ€“] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 10 points 4 weeks ago

Feeling tired and gross today

catgirl-flop

[โ€“] Boynomoder@hexbear.net 10 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Are there any good trans resources on hair?
Like how to care for it, style it, choose a look etc.
Feel kind of lost.

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[โ€“] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 10 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I got ma'am-ed in public for the first time ever, by someone selling me noodles.

Ma'am/sir is somewhat less common in Australia, but still present.

I was wearing high waisted baggy jeans, converse high tops and a light sweater over a padded sports bra. Long hair in a messy pony tail. I have pretty good breast growth for only 3-4 mths HRT.

Honestly it kind of stunlocked me in a good way.

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[โ€“] lilypad@hexbear.net 10 points 4 weeks ago

I love my d&d group!

Thats all

[โ€“] Wmill@hexbear.net 10 points 3 weeks ago (7 children)

The real op avatar element we never got because Nickelodeon is cowards is piss bending, sure you think you're tough but what you gonna do when someone bends the piss out of you brow

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[โ€“] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 10 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

I can't simply state "I like men" and I don't know why. It's true, but I always feel like if I state it I have to go on the defensive and justify myself somehow even though I just... don't?

I like girls too. fucking love them. sappho flag-lesbian-pride. I can say that confidently and without hesitance

but if I say I like men then I get super hesitant. my hand reaches for the back of my head and I feel... awkward? idk. I guess all my trans friends are transbians and I feel kind of out of place when I say "but men tho". but i'm on hexbear now and i still feel awkward talking about it? ugh

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[โ€“] CDommunist@hexbear.net 10 points 4 weeks ago

Focaccia bread with latke baked in vegan-v

[โ€“] SwitchyandWitchy@hexbear.net 10 points 4 weeks ago

Woohoo hamster mega!

[โ€“] Starlet@hexbear.net 10 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)
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[โ€“] inTheShadowOf@hexbear.net 10 points 4 weeks ago

Meredith sounds lovely. I'm glad she had someone that cared for her so much cat-trans

[โ€“] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 10 points 4 weeks ago (6 children)

i just grew into a whale from a fuckin tadpole ๐Ÿ‘

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[โ€“] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 10 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

just got my day one chip from bedwetters anonymous :)

[โ€“] Seryph@lemmygrad.ml 10 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

Omg pee pee girl is back! Glad to see you going back to your roots ๐Ÿ˜

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[โ€“] TrustedFeline@hexbear.net 9 points 4 weeks ago

RIP Meredith

[โ€“] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 9 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

So I'm not closeted. But I present butch so most people probably just see androgynous/fruity man. I won't give the exact details for OpSec but last week I basically got outed on a large scale for a community I'm involved in face to face regularly. I had an almost panic attack because of it.

But I eventually realized "hey this was good, it's like pulling a bandaid off all at once".

Except no one seemed to notice, at first I thought people were just being polite and pretending not to have notice. It wasn't subtle it was literally almost "Xia Cobolt is actually a woman, she is trans!". But like no one actually was paying any attention in the slightest and I'm like relieved but also disappointed.

[โ€“] Wmill@hexbear.net 9 points 4 weeks ago (3 children)

Doing black nail polish with pink sparkles on top. Looks nice been meaning to do something other than dark blue. Also got this scrunchie on that has this cute rose design, got a few like this. The scrunchie is black with a red outline, few other ones like a pink one, brown, and blue at home.

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